We are a happily married couple (12+ years).  We're relaxed, easy going and not at all pushy. We identify as being in-between poly and swinger. We are not into one-night stands and prefer to get to know people a little bit before taking things to the next level - a few emails and dinner/drinks is enough to know if there's a connection. We must be able to hold a conversation with our partners as well as have some chemistry in the bedroom.  Looks/size/age are not as important as personality, however, we are BBW & BBM and prefer same.  We are ideally seeking ongoing "friends with benefits" type arrangement with the right person/people. 

We only play as a couple, same room, prefer ongoing. We can host. We are also willing to travel to meet the right person/people, but would prefer if you were within 150km radius.