we are a happily married couple who are looking to add a little spice.   We are well educated and into fine food and wine  

We have limited experience with others and want to take things slowly.   We have a few soft swings and a one or two  full swaps with friends.   We have also had a MMF threesome.  

Husband is average appearance and wife is considered to be attractive by many men. 

We would like to double date with a couple where the male can treat wife as a lady and vice versa.