We are a couple married for over 20 years. We have been talking about playing with other couples for about 12 months now and Saturday week ago we attended our first swingers club. There was lots of excitement to the build up, however, the experience was not quite what we expected. Our perfect scenario is to go out for drinks or dinner first, get to know each other. Then we head back to a nice City Hotel for fun. We are both Southern European origin. She is 42 and very fit. He is 45 carrying extra weight but well groomed.