Thanks for all the messages guys. I just want to say that although I am ok with everybody's own choices and I do not judge, I am not comfortable communicating with guys who are playing alone without their partners knowledge. Ideally I would like to speak with couples, bi females and guys if they are either single or playing openly with their partners knowledge. Respectfully, please don't try to play games to get around that... and yes, I do everything with my Husband