I am looking for a nice lady between the ages of 20-65 for a casual ongoing relationship , preferably around the Ballarat area or between Ballarat and Geelong and maybe the west side of Melbourne , as i travel there occasionally . I don't want to meet a lot of ladies but really looking for only 1 in particular if we get on well and the distance is not too excessive . I'm not fussed whether you are a smoker or not . I have a car to travel and meet but unfortunately cannot accommodate . I am easygoing with no hang-ups and no baggage . looking for a nice lady for discreet times and not too concerned too much about looks because it's really about fun and meeting people . I am 6ft 3" tall , average build , brown eyes , clean shaven and no tattoos . I have many hobbies and interests , so there is much to talk about to keep conversations going . I'm curious about and love the BDSM scene and make my own bondage horses , spreader bars , whips , spankers etc ... so just have to find someone to do this with . I also love the goth scene as they go hand in hand with the BDSM . I enjoy hugs , cuddles and kisses and giving/receiving lots of affection and i especially love going down on a lady and giving her maximum pleasure , whatever it may be . We can arrange to meet in a public place for a coffee to break the ice and see how we get along , if you would prefer that . I will also answer any questions that you may have . I might also possibly consider a threesome with a couple too . Thanks and hope to hear from you .