have any others had troubles getting harassed by others, many years ago when i first met my wife we were on a few sites one of which we had photos on, she was recognized from the photos by one of her so called friends at the time & the fallout from it got that bad she ended up leaving her job & when we found out our first child was on the way we left that town.

move on 14 years a lot smarter & wiser we are only on here, my wife only plays on rare occasions, I do meet others (not often any more & only with her permission) we are now having problems again, 4 years ago I met a couple & had a great night with both of them after this his wife started sending me a lot of messages wanting to meet without her husband, i refused & eneded up cutting off all contact because of this. they have split up a few months ago now.

now the male of the pair is telling others the reason they have separated is because i have been sleeping with his wife, so now I have one of his friends (who walks past my house daily) harassing me every time he goes past,this i can deal with but now his has started on my wife & kids. trying to figure out a way to deal with this before I loose my shit & knock him out

have meet a lot of great people in this lifestyle but think now it will reserved for rare time when we are a long way from home