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25 Apr 2014

Hey guys we have a problem - in that we dont actually live together. Male goes on cams at times to draw attention ... which works but couples always expect to see female. We both understand that there are sooooo many fakes ... guys claiming to be couples. How can we get around this issue other than by giving out our numbers ... which we do.??

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25 Apr 2014

Quote by shebagazz
The problem with naming and shaming is that we only have one person's word against another. There would need to be prooof and I could see innocent people being named for pissing off the wrong person. For example, I get hit on, say no - next thing I know this person is saying I've done something wrong adn I have no way to defend myself.
COuld go horribly badly

Absolutely agree Haidee and so fully backed up by those who often mention the abusive messages that are received following a rejection.
Unless there is irrefutable proof of wrongdoing, then naming and shaming is totally the wrong way to approach the matter (IMO).
A better method would, from our side be that those that do not show up or contact are reported to Admin/Moderator who can then put a 'black mark against the profile. If the Admin/Moderator receive (for example) 3 black mark reports with 12 months (again an example) thence the profile is 'suspended' and a 'please explain' requested.
Even this has a massive downside as hen Admin become the judge, jury and executioner of what is considered reasonable or acceptable. But, where a profile is reported the required number of times, if the response received by Admin is acceptable thence those who reported are advised and we all move forward
The major flaw here is that essentially the site does not have paid staff and I suggested that there would be many vexatious reports (which, if found to be vexatious should become a black mark against the reporter) that then need to be weeded from all of the reports received.
A question for Admin/Moderator (out of interest) - what is the number of reports received?
Something has to be done ... we are getting really tired of this ... we give out both our numbers. If the site wants to stay relevent and make money a system of black marks would be a help.

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25 Apr 2014

Quote by elanjacobs
I reckon we should be allowed to name and shame people like that, they spoil it for everyone.

Yes we agree - we planned to meet a couple ans shuffled things to suit ... reall y dissappointed !

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25 Apr 2014

Quote by adventurous_two
Does anyone else go to this site? We have been there a number of times in the past few years, and never see any other couples there.

A waste of time - no couples ...

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30 Nov 2013

The only way to be sure is to arrange a meetup and flush em out! Its just like anything else ... the proof is in the pudding. Wayne

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