Hi
We have been to Swinger Parties and meets over the years and are very communicative when it comes to our fantasies. We have many a night Role playing with dress up's involving lingerie, the receptionist, corporate woman etc to fantasies off being watched, videoed, another male/ female enters the room to having a 3 some and then simply having a night of tantric sex or watching porn which inc our own home home made porn..
I have no inhibitions with looking at sites or porn tho, hubby tends to be more proactive in talking to ppl. I have always been shy to jump in I'm more the chat and see where it leads. At times I feel this is not the norm on these sites as how quickly numbers are exchanged for either face time, texts, calls and meets. Which is fine as I understand that ppl don't usuallly come to these sites other then to find like minded ppl because it is a sex site not a general chitchat site..
I believe I am quite sexual, we have attended parties but, I go with the mind set purely to see what things are all about... Yes, I know hubby does not have any reservations but, for some reason I just don't want to join the party..
We have had 3somes and Thoroughly enjoyed it but, I am shy I get all worked up on the initial " beginning"
So, for those that get worked up and tend to back off from the initial - who starts it well, I just wanted to say being with other men/ladies other then my husband is a big deal as I adore the sex we have and I suppose it's more about acting out a real fantasy!!
Very exciting and very horny!
At times I think I should just dive in and not give a rats but, Gee I do get nervous and Shy!
Thanks