Hi Tempted,
To answer you question
Out of curiosity, why don't you accept bi guys?
There are 3 reasons
1. They may be attracted to me (and I am straight)
2. They may not be attracted to me (and I have a fragile ego)
3. Mrs HL is curious about seeing 2 guys together and I don't want to put myself in a situation where she gives me that look that makes me want to do what ever it takes to please her. I would have to disappoint her and who likes to disappoint the woman in their lives.
:smile::smile::smile:
In all seriousness I'm not totally sure why and I suppose when you make the decision for others to join you, you can't be totally sure of what's in their hearts or heads anyway. So I suppose you could involve a bi/bi curious guy without even knowing it.
We have the opposite happen, when contacted by bi curious single men or bi curious men in couples, I mention that we are only looking for a straight male, bi curious lady or a couple, each and every time the response has been " I'm not really bi, I just say that to increase my chances of meeting people".
We make no judgement on people's preferences, variety makes the world the interesting place it is, but we do prefer honesty in people that we hope to meet up with.
Hi, we had our first experience at a nudist beach, sunnyside, recently and really enjoyed it. We found that people were quite friendly, a few couples walking up the beach had a quick chat and kept going. When we went into the water we were approached by a single male in a completely non threaten way and had a great chat for quite awhile. While we didn't have anyone plonk themselves next to us and start up a conversation, I think that it would have been ok if it were a couple as there would be less of a feeling pending harassment.