SOP: Ladies, I respect your privacy and because I'm sure you have enough weirdo's trying to bash down you inbox, so here's my Standard Operating Procedure:

• If I like something, I'll Like and Follow

• If you want to bring me to your attention, by all means like, follow or even Friend me if you're comfortable doing so and I'll follow up with you.

• I generally don't feel comfortable Friending someone until we've built a rapport through chat, although you're alwaye welcome to Friend me at any time if that suits you.

• I may comment on your photo's or your wall, but I typically won't message you directly. This is usually just to show appreciation for the content, but could be taken as another way of showing interest.

• But if you're interested, you're most welcome to contact me via DM at any time.

Otherwise, I intend to sit back here and enjoy your collective antics.

I honestly have no idea how or if I fit in here. As someone who has spent a life in monogomous relationships, the notion of compersion opened a new world of ENM that appealed to my neurospicyness, where being an occasional stand-in or 3rd wheel to an established team could bring bring us all pleasure.

So whilst I'm very much happily single now, I really miss intimacy and being playful. I have a bunch of kink interests, but key for me is touch and pussy worship whilst my BDSMtest score rated me high (96%) as a voyeur. I'll try to list my kink interests below, but to be honest, I'm pretty open minded so if you have a particular kink, let me know and we can discuss. I also enjoy incorporating toys into play - the more fun, the better. I'm also very much sapiosexual so would be more mindful to create a connection through chat initially and gradually increasing intensity rather than jumping straight into things.

In vanillaland, I'm an IT professional who enjoys live music, travel, travelling to see live music 🤪, swimming on Maggie, swimming our coastal creeks and water holes, dining out, fine dining (I'm definitely a quality before quantity kind of person), all things gadgets, ane exploring creative outlets like writing, photography, video production amd drone video.

Oh, I'm also big on establishing boundaries before play - where soft and hard limits exist so we can cruise along and hit all the green lights.