We are here because we don't want to abide by the norms and limits set by society. We are making our own up - negotiating boundaries, testing them, and, yes, even breaking them. We have decided that we aren't all meant to be tamed. Here is what we think we have figured out so far...

We have a strong relationship yet still both want to follow our erotic attractions to new people. Some old author from the 1600's said that absence diminishes mediocre passions and increases great ones, just as the wind blows out candles and fans fires. We have a great relationship and love spending time together but also feel that new experiences and people can make the great greater. We hope to find new people (singles or couples) that are interested in playing with desire and excitement. Here's a few ideas to start the conversation...

If we weren't suppose to have group sex, why would we have evolved with more erogenous zones than one person could possibly pleasure? So we would like to explore some 3+ play

We believe that sexual energy comes into play well before actual sex. The pleasure isn't just in the sex, but the passion, playfulness and teasing that accompanies it. Since there is no need to rush to the bedroom, maybe we could explore some games and sexiness, body paints, erotic photography, toys, and any ideas you may have.