I'm a writer. I write novels which I give to my literary agent and she tries to sell, and so far can't, so I write more, don't get paid, and meanwhile run a little business helping teach sex skills, mostly to men. But don't let that intimidate or stop you. I am new to it and have a lot to learn myself. I'm hopelessly intellectual. I have a Phd in politics and an interest in Russia. Have lived many places. Don't read enough current events but write poetry. Enjoy nude beaches, nice Shiraz, and usually my own company. I dream of travelling but am also a homebody. I enjoy tall men, who are confident in bed but open to learning more. Some life experience is good. And please be open. I'm on a swinger's site for a reason. Open can mean committed and love, etc, but doesn't preclude fun with others. xx