My wife and I are happily married but looking to add a little extra spice. We're after a tall handsome guy, medium build, non-smoker, discreet, professional and respectful. Or a woman who is clever, brunette, petite, classy. Meet at a bar first to get to know each other. No guarantees. I'm 41 and , medium build. My wife is 38 and , petite and classy.