Quote by heartman
To all the couples advertising..................................and just general looking for in profiles...........
If you are NOT looking for single guys, please can we have it not added to the "looking for" section that you want a guy, either bi or straight.
I don't think it is too difficult.
It's a little off putting to read profiles that have straight guy in the looking section but when you read the Bio it say NO single guys. >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>well DON'T include it in the looking section....JUST put couple with straight guy
as it makes it easier for us single guys to look for couples who actually do want a single guy.
90% of the couples with ads in couples seeking guys are NOT looking for single guys.
I think it is only courtesy, I don't send messages to couples who don't want single guys so make it simpler for us please.
Cheers and happy swinging to ALL
Chris

Quote by mr_twonewbies
What about the high number of rude single females? Let's start a thread on that too. It happens in equal doses here I'd say. There's enough sociopaths on both sides of the gender fence.

Quote by azeasy
I am getting a little sick of reading "no singlle males" written in capitals and/or bold typeface on members profiles.
Not for the usual reasons a single bloke gets on here to gripe about it.
It annoys me to no end because this behavior is indicative of people who have been pestered by those they dont want contact from.
Now if you had straight male, or bi male listed in your looking for section I can understand the confusion. I have come accross a few profiles like that, but most of them also have a written description and/or ad describing what they want.
Majority of the profiles with the "no single males" in the description have couple or woman in their "looking for" section. In reality that should be enough.
Now I still think its good practice to have a write up on your profile, and some time you will see in there that a couple is looking for a single bloke as well.
two reasons for this come to mind:
1. The situation has changed and she/they are no longer looking for men. the "looking for" section was updated and the written part wasnt.
2. She/they dont want their profile listed in the "looking for single men" search as this may bring too much attention.
so if you dont, or are unable, to match the desire description of what somone is looking forjust dont bother. If they are asking for a 9" prick and youve got an 8.5" go for it sell yourself, you might get lucky. If you have a beard and they want shaved, pull out a razor. BUT if they want a girl, either booka trip to Thailand (if you get me) or dont bother.
Could couples and single women of any orrientation please respond as well. Maybe we can educate the masses. I am fairly sure that the men (good & bad) read the forums.
thanks for your time.

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Any guys currently in penrith now free.

Quote by Diesel79
Hi All
Having spent a fair amount of time on this site, it is clear to all that Single guys either get a really bad wrap, or just seem to get ignored because couples are looking for couples and ladies tend to look towards the couples too. This is understandably so. I have also seen so many guys place comments and requests on this site, or respond with one liners - which really does not create attraction or interest.
I would like to revolutionise this if i possibly can, but in truth not much can be achieved alone, so i am looking for some help.
Here goes: I am a Professionally qualified, Self Employed Guy, 34 years old and love life. I am into most things where it is deemed adventurous, exciting or an experience, and willing to give it a go. That being said, i am totally against drugs, i drink a very limited amount of alcohol (good scotch and good red wine only), but only to compliment a good chat or a good meal - and not to get tipsy or drunk - ever.
With the luxury of working for myself - my time is usually my own - this is not the case 100% of the time, but for most part it is, and for the rest, i have the ability to remain flexible.
I live in the Bayside suburbs of Melbourne - so keep that in mind when considering locality.
What i am looking for is: A Lady or a couple of similar age groups (say 20's to early 40's) who would like to get to know me, and who i can get to know. If you message me, i will reply, i will give you my telephone number (or you can give me yours in your message) and i will call. If we click on the phone, i would like to meet up with you - the sooner the better because anything exciting is based on a moment in time, and if we let that moment pass, we may miss out on what surrounds us.
I will buy you a drink / a coffee and we can have a chat - again if the chemistry is right - then we collectively can decide if we want to take if further or not.
I am not looking for a relationship of dependancy, but friends - with benefits if that works. Ideally, an ability to chat, but the comfort to play, even at the drop of a hat - i am happy to be your booty call if that works too.
What i don't want is to waste your time, or have mine wasted either - i hate the hypocrisy on some profiles where people clearly stipulate what they want and what they don't, and when you fit that profile, and respond to them - they just ignore you. I am not like that, and i will treat you with the respect you deserve and ask for the same in return. If you want to meet - then we wont just talk about it - we will do it. Again, i will not waste your time, i am free in most part fairly quickly and be it a morning / afternoon or early evening - i am sure we can figure that out.
My profile has a very limited photo collection - and due to the nature of my profession and industry - i intend keeping it that way. In saying that, my private album has face pictures, which i will happily share.
Finally - as i said before - i want to revolutionise a couple of things and need your help - this is where i need your help.....I want to prove to me, to you and to all those on SW who have doubt, that by being a good person, doing the right thing, communicating with more than 1 liners, and by being clear about what we want, what we are looking for, and asking and offering the same in tone, attitude, commitment and respect - that good will come our way, and with that - i hope that the good will be recognised by a lovely lady, or couple with the same ideas and mindset, looking for a Friend with regular benefits in which together we can meet, chat and play - hopefully ongoing, and prove the point that this can and does exist.
So can you help me - can i find what i am looking for, or is all hope lost in the sheer and simple fact that I AM A SINGLE GUY?