First timers and shy....need a caring, fun couple to get us started...

We are a loving married couple and we have a great sex life but looking to try new things.  We are quite adventurous in the bedroom hence why we have extended to this site to see what new things can be tried.  We consider ourselves to be quite shy at first, not big talkers so we will need someone to do lots of talking for us or atleast very friendly to take us under their wing.  We will get better as time goes on though.  Both of us are straight however she is very keen to be with another woman, he is open to suggestions and not homophobic.  We are both cleanly shaved/trimmed, so looking for same, non smoking please or minimal smoking will be considered.  

We both have body piercings, he has genital, she hasn't got genital at this stage :)