Hi I hope to get to meet adventurous friends, I am not new to consensual non-monogamy, I am married, and have a wife, and previously had regular lovers. (Which my wife knows about and supports) I am polyamorous by nature.

Things I Enjoy.

Perhaps my most enjoyable pass time is getting together with a group of flirty, open minded, adults. Where it is welcome to interact, chat, joke & enjoy the pleasure of company, the acceptance that a hug or a kiss is welcome among friends. Going to a BBQ or picnic with a group, makes life worth living.

On some occasions this may extend to a hot tub party, where people get naked and close in the same flirty environment, naturally this is a most horny occasion and lends itself to great sex. Being comfortable and enjoying sexuality with others is the best. Being polyamorous in nature, I get joy from my partner experiencing pleasurable situations, as a joint experience or individually. I feel compersion.

The most essential quality in any potential partner, is the willingness to share social events of the kind described above. Age, size, shape, looks, are all unimportant. The desire to enjoy life, and share great social times together is what matters most.

I have previously attended a number of swing parties, and a few BDSM events. If any of that interests you, lets meet over a drink or coffee and chat, I’d love to meet you and see what the possibilities are. I you enjoy erotic stories, have a look at one I wrote describing an actual meet that occurred a few years ago. I hope you enjoy it. Click on the "Stories (1)" tab underneath the beach photo above to find it.

A few things that may be important to you, a gentleman doesn't kiss and tell. I have had the snip, so no chance of a surprise later. I don't smoke, though don't mind if you do. I don't do drugs, The passion of the moment is intoxication enough. While I can enjoy fetish, I am not overly into B&D. In a perfect world we would meet up regularly, perhaps once or twice a month. I'm happy to be a friend with benefits or a regular liaison, I am seeking an ongoing relationship. Still reading? want more? drop me a line and  lets talk some more, and tell me about what you would like, and we can meet for coffee, or a drink and a chat at a place that suits you. I would be delighted to accompany a lady to social gatherings of playful open minded people, and parties.