I was having a meeting early this week and the conversation rarely stayed on work, it went on for a lot longer than was necessary but She did not seem keen to leave. When it came time to finally part ways She shook my hand and held it for what seemed like an extraordinarily long time, and then resumes chatting and then proceeding to shake my hand and again holding it for a long time.
I was very attracted to her, and during my conversation with her my mind had indeed wondered if she maybe into the lifestyle, But how could I tell without potentially ruining the business relationship. It was not until her long handshakes that I thought maybe there is a secret handshake that would be so subtle only those in the know could tell...
I know the above sounds like the start of a penthouse forum article, but it is exactly how it happened.... honest.
So is there anyway you can tell a swinger from the boring normal people in a situation like this? Is there something like a secret handshake?
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Warming the Bed
Well, this reminds me of an episode of friends where the guys ended up with free porn on the cable. After watching it for days on end they were surpised when life didn't start playing out the same way. Given that you could have always just asked if she would like to go out with u and the mrs sometime.
Sexpert
So is there anyway you can tell a swinger from the boring normal people in a situation like this? Is there something like a secret handshake?
the eternal questions.... do they or don't they - will they or won't they - should i ask or not ask - what if....
when and if you find the answers, let us all know
its a pity life is not like "The Sims" where the thought bubble has all the answers
good luck
the eternal questions.... do they or don't they - will they or won't they - should i ask or not ask - what if....
when and if you find the answers, let us all know
its a pity life is not like "The Sims" where the thought bubble has all the answers
good luck
Sexpert
We've often discussed this between us. There doesn't seem to be a definite sign, but sometimes you get the look, and you know that if you wanted it to be, it could be on.
I agree with the comment about asking if she wants to go out with you & your wife some time. The normal life conversions are the fun ones.
Go for it... tentatively... lol
A & J
Forum Virgin
I've read on a few swingers forums that if the female wears an anklet on her right ankle it means they are players my wife wears one on her right but we are waiting for someone to ask if we are in the lifestyle
Forum Virgin
Quote by kanniget
Is there something like a secret handshake?
Maybe she was a Mason and testing you out, you failed..
Orgasminator
ive thought of a necklace or a keychain with the SH emblem on it, or a swing set.
mrs two wears her necklace on cam so people will see it and might see us out.
I was thinking that if we came up with a little private identifier such as a Sticker on the car bumper or back windscreen placed on the bottom right hand side. The sticker could have just a plain colour...like green, or gold. It could even just be a round circle in black so not obvious to the general public, but if i pulled up behind a car on the road with say a black sticker on the back windscreen, it would be huge amounts of excitement and the like to pull up next to the car, wind down my window and say....Hi, i like your sticker. That is the handshake we all have been searching...Next thing you know, we may be in the car park at a local park, and excitement for all.
Any thoughts
Warming the Bed
We like the idea of square stickers colour coded to SH profiles too
Blue- Guys ...Pink- Ladies...Green- Couples
That way we know SH is on the road to a good time!!!
Sexpert
Quote by wewannadou
I think the color coded stickers are a great idea.
Im going to get me a couple of green stickers
I got some from cheap as chips. Will put Couple on truck aswell
Sex God
Quote by luv2chowdown
First time I've seen those stickers, and I think for them to work I think they need to be promoted.
How about putting a permanent "add' on everypage. That way everyone would know, buy and recognise them, and also increase sales and thus revenue for the site.
Cheerz Barney
The site doesnt make any money.... from the sales in cafepress.. that i know off....
Sex God
for the stickers you can buy self adhesive blank stickers and just save the logo image from the site and print them yourself its pretty simple to do
Orgasminator
we thought of glow bands mr bay, be great in the dark.
mrs two has a keyring tag on her keys with the SH symbol in it, we did it before SH put out thier products
Forum Virgin
Quote by cadillac
Is there something like a secret handshake?
Maybe she was a Mason and testing you out, you failed..
There are no women in the masons guess your not one either
Forum Virgin
Isn't there a mobile phone app that does similar and notifies you of local like minded peeps and where they are if you want to meet up?
Orgasminator
Quote by Shellie
Isn't there a mobile phone app that does similar and notifies you of local like minded peeps and where they are if you want to meet up?
we try and use it but doesnt seem to work. we have 2 profiles and when we turn both phones on we dont see each other. maybe im doing something wrong
Forum Virgin
Hi, I thought that the "grey nomads"have a love heart on their vans if they play??? might be a rumour tee hee ...Gabi
Lot's of great posts and idea here, only when I reread the original post it happened at a business meeting. In this instance I don't think a sticker would be appropriate. I also looked at the the site listed above and thought that was abetter idea only that they could be confused with the gay pride logo and while I all for gay pride it could be counter productive. I think a lapel pin with SH engraved might be the best way in this particular instance. The explanation is ; 'it's stands for Secret handshake '. I did think the invite for a night out was a goody to. Any way feed back appreciated. 
