Hi all,
I hope this is the right part of the forum for this. I'm a mid 20's single male and for a while now I've been curious about the Swinging scene. I would really love to check out some of the clubs in melbourne but as I'm sure a lot of people are, I'm extremely nervous about the whole thing. I'm not sure whether to go to a night where single men can attend because I might be self aware around a bunch of other guys. In that case I should go with a girl to one for just couples? The bad thing there is I'd probably be to shy and intimidated by the nice girls haha.
Long story short I don't have a lot of confidence in myself. Any tips on good venues to start or anything would be greatly appreciated. I would really really love to try swinging but at the same times I'm really scared and nervous about it all.