Rules??

21 Jun 2006

There are no specific rules that would guarantee a good time. I'm assuming you are talking about ads here. Be sure to say what you are looking for. Don't forget about picture collectors. It's best not to have any prethought expectations. Go with an open mind and just have a good time.

25 Jun 2006

It's wise to take some precautions. We now stopped going to clubs all together. Ads are much more better and convenient for us. We get to choose the playmates..and we can also check out recommendations from others. Don't bring too much rules into swinging as it wouldn't be fun..

7 Jul 2006

The most important rule is to have fun. Be discreet, what happens at the club/house/wherever stays where it happened. If this is your first time, do a lot of research. Don't rush anything. Be active in swingerboards and know the people. Set limits and always use protection.

7 Jul 2006

wrong! wrong! The idea of swinging is to get away from the normal standards of the world. You can't set rules here. You are here to break all the rules. By all means, do just that. Try out everything. If it involves lot of pain and metal spikes..don't forget to call me.

20 Jul 2006

It's wise to take some precautions. We now stopped going to clubs all together. Ads are much more better and convenient for us. We get to choose the playmates..and we can also check out recommendations from others. Don't bring too much rules into swinging as it wouldn't be fun..
That's exactly what others have been telling us. We decided to stick with the ads too. We feel like there is more freedom of choice there. They have been telling how important it is to set boundaries. There are bad sides to anything, right?

29 Jul 2006

You guys are so helpful for beginners like me. We thought we talked about all that could be talked about..but seems liek there is so much we dont know about. We havent thought about setting up rules before. I just thought we could just jump in.

21 Aug 2006

Why? To set up any rules. We are the one who explore all new things and changed the system of classical monogamy. So why should we restrict ourselves by making some rules?