I have a conundrum for you...
I've read and heard that it is mainly the male partner in a relationship that is eager to try swinging but this is not the case with us. I am very interested in the swinging scene but he keeps coming up with excuses why we cant. He's more than willing to have threesomes with other females but only if I arrange it and he refuses to go to a club/party because he thinks it will either be full of gorgeous model type people, sleazy men or people much older than us.
I've tried to explain that normal people like us are into swinging as well but he seems afraid to try it.
Do you think he will change his mind with more gentle persuasion? Or should I give up on the idea altogether?
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nervous male, eager female...what can I do?
Come into the chatrooms get to know people, I am sure he will soon realise we're all very normal everyday people.
He doesnt have any problems with insecurity? Or perhaps he might be wondeirng how your relationship will go and using everything else as an excuse?
It's hard when one partner really wants to but the other is unsure or doesnt for whatever reason.
Talk it out and as warmblood said, education is key.
Warming the Bed
hey we are new to this and are stikll talking our feeling out i have found that most of the ppl here are really good even just chat with the rest will come in time just say hi. If your guy ever wants a straight guy to talk to he can say hi to me as i can only guess that some of the feelings that have gone/going on in his head have crossed mine.
Some men just don't like sharing or don't like the idea of another guy touching their girl and unfortunately all to many of them don't realise this when they go to a swingers party and its VERY awkward.
Also alot of males compare themselves by their dick size so if the only other cocks he sees are on porn what do you think he's thinking if he goes to a swingers club? Hi Tiny ;)
There's 2 ideas for you anyway.....
