Nervous &amp; Awaiting

7 Mar 2014

First timer couple looking to explore other options! Female portion incredibly nervous, looking to make marriage a little more exciting and surprise husband smile

Any small parties on tomorrow night (Sat 8th March) that we could join?

7 Mar 2014

Ooh, how exciting for you to be taking that first step! We're not sure about parties tomorrow. The ones we have been to before (Stilettos and Debauchery) aren't on this weekend. Well, Stilettos has a "players" night with lots of extra single guys, but that's probably not the best night for your first ever experience (and doesn't sound like what you're looking for anyway). You could always join another couple for an intimate dinner, talk with them about the lifestyle, and get up to some outrageous flirting. A no pressure, no commitments thing, just to test the waters. We happen to know of an interesting couple quite local to you. ;) Of course, it might be an idea for you to provide a little more detail in your profile so that others can get an idea of whether you're their type or not too. Good luck with it all. We can promise you that if you play it right, this game is sooooo much fun!! passionkiss

7 Mar 2014

Hi there Nelle, Welcome to you both. I agree with TemptedTwo's suggestion of meeting a couple over a nice meal or drinks and asking them lots of questions and fact gathering. Most couples are happy to share their experiences and they will open your mind to things you may not have even considered. It will also help you with your nerves as it will boost your confidence. Playing the game right for yourselves is the best option. Great advice TT. Enjoy your journey, Good & Greedy smile