Hi guys,
Me and my gf have recently been talking about having a threesome with another guy when we are ready & comfortable. We have never done anything like this before and are interested in the idea of her playing with 2 guys. We are both Asian, I am 24 and she is 21. My gf has said that she would prefer for the guy to be Aussie lol.
Now to our issue - to find out whether this would actually be a turn on for both of us, we have both agreed (we have to agree with every little thing that is involved with this new experience) to go to a dance club in the next few weeks and have her dance with someone she fancies while I watch from a distance. If watching her dirty dance and grind against a guy makes me jealous, I can give her a signal to call it off. If I get turned on, I can keep watching her and as the night progresses allow her to get dirtier with the guy on the dance floor.
She thinks it would be hot to dance with another guy at a club but I am 50 50 on the idea - In my mind I think its going to be sexy but it is only in my head, reality is a different thing. So would this idea of watching her dirty dance with another guy in the club under my control be a good way of finding this out? I mean, I think this would be a good way to know whether me and my gf would be ready to try a threesome.
Also, would it be a good idea for her to introduce me as her "good friend" to the guy she is dancing with? Would it be a good idea for me to join in and dance with both of them?
Has anybody here tried this at the club with their gf? If so, how did it turn out? Did it help both of you decide to take the next step and try a threesome? If you would like to chat to us, you can private msg me and I can give you my msn.
Thanks guys, your suggestions and opinions would be greatly appreciated!
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Me and my gf are interested in MMF - need advice
Sexlightened
hi guys,
as long as you stick to the ground rules you set----then you should be alright.
one problem might be by going to a club is the person your gf dances with---might not be into 3somes, so you need to be carefull there.
have you thought about going to swingers clubs ? or maybe even go along to meet and greets--which are organised by people on here, that way you do get to meet people who enjoyed 3 or 4 somes.
tony
Quote by tony22
hi guys,
as long as you stick to the ground rules you set----then you should be alright.
one problem might be by going to a club is the person your gf dances with---might not be into 3somes, so you need to be carefull there.
have you thought about going to swingers clubs ? or maybe even go along to meet and greets--which are organised by people on here, that way you do get to meet people who enjoyed 3 or 4 somes.
tony
Hi Tony,
Thanks for your reply, we don't know any swingers clubs in Sydney. Do you have any suggestions?
Also, we are just experimenting at the club because we are not really interested in becoming members of this swinging club. We are just looking for some random fun and hook ups. We are not looking to make it a lifestyle at this stage anyway.
Definitely decide on and stick to your rules. My gf and I did it by ringing a male escort agency. That way, we just paid the money, the guy came and we all fucked, and it guaranteed no strings. Commercial deal, over and done with in the allotted time, It was v sexy and we still talk about it. And we'll do it again.
