If she is not agreeing ?

18 Jun 2006

If your wife is not willing to get invovled, don't force her. Swinging is based on etiquette and first rule is NO MEANS NO. You should give her time to understand the process and also answer her doubts and cocnerns. Explain her how it works and that you have nothing to loose. Make her comfortable that your consent and mutual agreement should not disturb your married life in such a case. Try everyhting to help her formulate a positive idea about this but never rush up or force her. She may consent under pressure only to feel bad or refuse later. May even affect your married life. So, give her time to accept it, before taking next step.

18 Jun 2006

Hi, Yes shane thats a very good post. I am posting one more good idea. Good idea is to bring her to the board and surf it together. It's a terrific resource and a great place to find out more about swinging. Plenty of good information and advice, and lots of friendly people.

25 Jun 2006

very true. You shouldn't push your partner against his/her wishes. The fantastic possibilities of swinging is great indeed but a meaningful relationship is just as important. Never do anything that can put your marriage in danger.

26 Jun 2006

If your wife is not willing to get invovled, don't force her. Swinging is based on etiquette and first rule is NO MEANS NO.
You should give her time to understand the process and also answer her doubts and cocnerns. Explain her how it works and that you have nothing to loose. Make her comfortable that your consent and mutual agreement should not disturb your married life in such a case. Try everyhting to help her formulate a positive idea about this but never rush up or force her.
She may consent under pressure only to feel bad or refuse later. May even affect your married life. So, give her time to accept it, before taking next step.
I agree, and that's a big part of why I'm not married...HA! It's much easier to be able to make the decision yourself, although it's harder to find willing partners when you're not in a swinging couple...

7 Jul 2006

I hear about all these men wanting to get their partners into swinging..me on the otherhand is very lucky. It was my girlfriend that got me into swinging. I was not sure at first. But once you taste the poison, there's no going back! I don't know how to make women agree to swinging but all my girl had to do was to take me to a club. :grin:

7 Jul 2006

I hear about all these men wanting to get their partners into swinging..me on the otherhand is very lucky. It was my girlfriend that got me into swinging. I was not sure at first. But once you taste the poison, there's no going back! I don't know how to make women agree to swinging but all my girl had to do was to take me to a club. :grin:
Lucky guy! I wish every girl in this planet were as sensible as your g/f. How old is she? Can you put up a picture of her on profile? I see you are in the sydney area. mad

hgrin: She is a model for what women are supposed to be. I would like to get to know her. ;)

11 Jul 2006

Not for you. I just read your fantasies with pain and getting yourself skinned! You are a weird one! And since I care about her health and well being..You are not to come near within 2000 miles of her. You got that? stay away :P Since your profile say you are in sydney, I would suggest you to move away. I got shotguns mate!

18 Jul 2006

Please don't force your wife as it may hamper you relation. It's not required that all women like swinging. Its more about emotional state then physical involvement to deal or swing with different sexual partners.

20 Jul 2006

Please don't force your wife as it may hamper you relation. It's not required that all women like swinging. Its more about emotional state then physical involvement to deal or swing with different sexual partners.
Actually, It's more like it has nothing to do with emotional involvement. Swinging is just for the sake of it, just to have a different experience, to spice things up in already good marriage.