How do i convince my wife?

21 Jun 2006

You shouldn't force your wife to do anything. Swinging isn't a chance for you to live out your fantasies. It's something both parties must enjoy and agreed upon. You say you wife didn't say no. So she maybe curious. Your wife's fear for ur marriage is natural. This isn't for everyone. Both of you should sit down and talk about this rather than you forcing her into it. It will be much more enjoyable for both of you that way. Talk to her. Explore your fantasies. Bring in swinging somewhere in. Implant the idea in her. Give her time to think about it. Introduce it gentlty with subtle hints, making her come to boards like this, baby steps.

23 Jun 2006

Now there is only one thing left to do for this problem. Are you in Sydney area? Send me an email. I will come to your house and personally take care of this problem. FREE of charge. mad

hgrin: We gotta show her what she is missing. You can join me if you like. lol.

25 Jun 2006

You should never do something like that. Never push her to join the lifestyle. If you have a healthy relationship with your wife, why ruin it? Ask yourself why you want to do it..Never lose your respect for your wife. She is not something on which you can fulfill your fetishes.

7 Jul 2006

Would you like it if someone forced you to do something that you didnt like? I have seen a lot of guys destroying their marriage over this. Not everybody is open minded about sex and you should respect your wife's feelings. The best thing you can do is to take her to clubs and help her get an idea. That's what my girl did to me.

7 Jul 2006

Would you like it if someone forced you to do something that you didnt like? I have seen a lot of guys destroying their marriage over this. Not everybody is open minded about sex and you should respect your wife's feelings. The best thing you can do is to take her to clubs and help her get an idea. That's what my girl did to me.
If they are forcing me to have sex. hell yeah! I would like it. You are right about the open minded thing though. To properly function in the swinging world, your women not only needs open minds but also open legs :grin:

20 Jul 2006

I appreciate you all replying to me. For the last month we have been doing lot of research into this. We also found 2 really experienced couples who are willing to guide us through this. We did got to a club once but it was too messy for us. We decided to stick with the ads. Thanks for all replying fellows.

29 Jul 2006

I appreciate you all replying to me. For the last month we have been doing lot of research into this. We also found 2 really experienced couples who are willing to guide us through this. We did got to a club once but it was too messy for us. We decided to stick with the ads. Thanks for all replying fellows.
You really got experienced people to guide you? I dont think I'm not that prepared. Reading through this forum, I'm more and more worried that I maybe rushing things!