Does swinging make you like sex more?

19 Jun 2006

I couldn't like it any more than I do , but yes, it does seem to heat up things between us. I think that's a pretty common reaction with most people.

19 Jun 2006

I've learned after doing this for a while, and then dating the normal girl. Once you swing, you'll swing all the time! There's no going back. The sex is too good to pass up, and I think it makes the relationship stronger Ioannes :grin:

19 Jun 2006

one big hell yes here. only wish we would have done this together years ago.

21 Jun 2006

It has certainly made a difference. You are open to avenues that you never had the nerve to try and experience. You are willing to try out things that are considered sexually extreme. You feel like you can sexually express yourself much better than you were before.

23 Jun 2006

yes it does. For some it's like a drug. believe me, you can get addicted to sex. You are trying to come up with more imaginative ways to do those 3 holes. lol. Yep. You become a lean mean sex machine.

25 Jun 2006

The answer is no. Swinging doesn't make you like sex more. It just makes you more open to ideas when it comes to sex. It doesnt really make you a sex addict..but it certainly makes sex a much more enjoyable experience.

7 Jul 2006

In my experience, it does. Before getting into swinging..when I saw a beautiful girl, I would think about her body, her curves, how she walks and all that. Now when i see a lovely girl, I would think about whether I should throatfuck her or assfuck her. Before it was all thoughts and now it's all action. So I would say swinging definitely makes you like sex more.

7 Jul 2006

In my experience, it does. Before getting into swinging..when I saw a beautiful girl, I would think about her body, her curves, how she walks and all that. Now when i see a lovely girl, I would think about whether I should throatfuck her or assfuck her. Before it was all thoughts and now it's all action. So I would say swinging definitely makes you like sex more.
Before and after joining the lifestyle..I would always look at women and think about how I would screw that fine piece of ass. It hasn't changed one bit. I couldn't believe that people actually listens to women. I thought they were here just to satisfy my biological needs.

20 Jul 2006

The answer is no. Swinging doesn't make you like sex more. It just makes you more open to ideas when it comes to sex. It doesnt really make you a sex addict..but it certainly makes sex a much more enjoyable experience.
That is the kind of answer most of the experienced people we have talking to say. but there were some who said how they cant stop thinking about sex. There was this couple who could only go to club on weekends, So the whole week, all they think about is what they goona do at the weekend. That was a little scary.

29 Jul 2006

It is so nice to hear about people who know what they are talking about. I wouldnt mind exploring all corners myself. After all I wouldnt want to miss out on anything in life.

21 Aug 2006

I swing because I like sex. And yes it made me to like sex more as I usually swing with women who are elder to me like late thirties. So they are more experienced and teach me all new tricks.

23 Aug 2006

Studboy you seem to be active on many topics! I've just joined this forum and having read some of your comments find them very interesting (now been classified as an older bird, late thirties!) I've not circulated and been away from the scene of swinging for about six years. I'm suprised to find how much information is now available, previously we just organized a private party and given that many who attended were into swinging, it just eventuated. What advice could you or anyone reading this give to us? My partner is quiet shy but we've openly discussed my previous swinging prior and he's very interested in this. I always loved good hard sex and was always open to exploration, which a lot of guys at that time were not, has this now changed. :und:

7 Sep 2006

I think in order for you to like swinging you already have to like sex a lot. If you didn't like sex before swinging then there is somthing wrong in the relationship that you are already in.

11 Sep 2006

just from the experiance of my lover going away for one night on a date she arranged our sex life has gone up several notches. We agree that by both of us swinging it will be even better if that is actually possible, biggrin

23 Mar 2010

In my couple of years swinging, I've found it suits my personality and love trying something different without society's judgement with other people who think the same. Everytime you try a new experience, its a bit scary and daunting, but after you wonder why you held back all those years. I certainly enjoy my single life and choose to live it now, building fabuolus memories and giving/receiving pleasure along the way

6 Apr 2010

We have just notched up our 20th year of swinging. Don't know that we like sex more.... but we do love it, and although we don't go swinging every weekend, or even every month, we are like rabbits for the next few weeks afterward.

2 Jul 2010

It was my wife at the times idea to have threesomes and moresomes with men she picked up at town or online. However, I'm hooked!! Have been ever since!!! Would love to share our experiences with anyone, I still toss off thinking about my x fucking other men!!!

18 Jul 2010

for sure it does, if you feel secure and comfortable enough to be cool with swinging, then its a very freeing feeling, even tho we havent done anything yet, just talking bout it and knowing my man is ok with anything and i;m not being judged makes me so hot for him and having a great connection is what makes him different from the rest so any one else its just sex.