simple as are looks important or are their different rules for swingers ?
looks dont matter to me im more worried about my looks lol
Well chemistry is important and looks are part of chemistry. We find a good sense of humour and a willingness to have fun more important.
People shouldnt be so shallow as to make looks so important, I think everyone is beautiful in some way, look at the person not just their faces.
i agree but people can be shallow and thats what im afraid of since im new and everything
I think you'll find that most genuine people on here are much more interested in attitude and personality than looks. We've never played on the basis of looks, but always on whether we feel we can have a laid-back easy-going time with the person/people we choose. You should be able to get some sort of feel with a few messages whether the folks you're talking to are right for you. Plenty eliminate themselves along the way on the basis of what they say rather than looks. I'm sure that being young you're probably being inundated, but our advice, for what it's worth , is take your time to find the right person, especially if you're new and nervous.
Good Luck,
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