So you say your straight but your looking for anyone to suck your cock so this would include guys , your also looking for a bi couple or couple with bi male , seeking any of these you would yourself have to be at least bi-curious or bi-sexual yourself not straight
Jeez no need to be so picky melbcpl.
Everybody interprets labels differently. "Straight" might mean only interested in girls, but when really desperate and horny might consider closing his eyes and ignoring that the mouth is male.
Or if a guy might try another guy once but is rarely likely to do it again, isn't straight still more accurate than bi? After all, wouldn't it be misleading if a "bi" guy wasn't interested in men? Or to make you happy does he need to announce "today and today only I'm bi, but all the rest of the time I'm straight"?
As for seeking a couple with a bi male, how does that make him bi? If he's seeking the female half of a couple, should he reject all those women with a bi husband? Just because the husband is bi doesn't mean he has to play with him.
Our view is that people need to be less critical of labels. Let him be whatever he wants to call himself and let him look for whoever he likes.
making quite a name for yourself aren't you melbcpl ?? lol..
Sounds like people are getting sick of the negativity.
So what do you call a bi or bi curious guy if he no longer wants sex with other guys? Straight maybe?
Then what if he wants sex from a guy today, but knows tomorrow and for the next however long he won't want sex from guys? Bi today, straight tomorrow? Change his sexuality as moods take him? Sounds a bit of a stretch!
If you must have labels, "predominantly straight" might fit. But don't go pressuring guys to list themselves as bi (even bi curious) if the vast majority of the time they don't want any male action. God knows we've already seen plenty of complaints from couples seeking a bi male about how so many bi guys aren't genuinely bi. Don't go making it worse!
What he asked for was clear enough. Why do you care how he classifies his sexuality?
So true TemptedTwo.
It's bad enough that we need to label everything.
So if a guy is in a glory hole and he enjoyed getting sucked off by a guy but didn't know? Does that mean the guy is bi? When it was a once off? Don't think so....
Ok so who defines the bi and bi curious definition?
Someone please point us in the right direction so we don't start a heated conversation with no evidence!
If a guy is interested in sexual activities with another male that makes him bi curious , if he finds its not fort him and has no further intrest in MM activities we would say straight from that point on
We also ran the question in general in the chat rooms and of the many responses everyone there says at minimum he would be bi curious and not straight
Not one person said he would be straight
As melbcpl is so concerned with labels I've got one for them: Anal.
I feel you are being a bit harsh on melbcpl.
At the very least they should be lauded for being consistent and never failing to disappoint
dv8uout nails it
sorry peep's straight is straight bi is bi gay is gay
yeah.. but you need a Dymo label maker for that..
Apologies to troy for hijacking his thread btw.. did you get that gobbie in the end.?
Good ol' troy has made many new friends since that post
Im sure Troyw is neither gay or bi but i bet his boyfriend is a queer as a $3 note