would love to eat some pussy, wife doesn't let me any more and really miss it. Wife won't know so discretion a must. Let me know if you are interested, lets chat and see.............
hhhmmmm, theres a joke there but im not going near it lol
no idea what the joke is perhaps you would like to share it. as far as the Bellamy Brothers are concerned? Their relevance is probably only lower than their actual ability in musical terms. lol
belami brothers rule lol
think pussy, eatting, chinese resturants of the 70s lol
well if your wife cant trust you you got no hope with mine , you gotta be honest its really attractive maybe even to your wife
thanks for the input OKandQ. Its a really long story about why she won't let me eat pussy. I don't presume to know anything about you, you really shouldn't presume anything about me.
cant trust a person who cheats,
What the hell are you thinking pal...You're married to this woman and because she wont let you go down on her you want to cheat on her.. Have you ever once stopped to consider her feelings?? How hurt will she be when she finds out your nothing but a lowlife cheating piece of dirt...Maybe she should be on here looking for a decent cock to suck??
Well you certainly wont be getting any where near my Mrs...You obviously cant tell the truth to your wife, why should people on a "swingers site" (not a cheaters site) trust anything you have to say.
Btw, no i don't know you or anything about you and judging by your thread i would have no interest in doing so.
Sorry to be so harsh but that's how i feel about this kind of thing plus its early and i haven't had my happy pills lol.
Mr Wewanna
Yeah, this site is reserved for the high moral people only
Get real guys, what do youpect with a swingers site
Go to church if you have to preach lol
[wow.......I just wanted to see if there was a lady out there interested in a discreet meet up for me to eat her pussy. Instead I get people lecturing me and calling me names without knowing my situation or anything. I live by the thought 'we are all unique' and that uniqueness makes the world a really interesting place. I try not to abuse people and I certainly don't abuse them for what makes them unique. It is really sad that a site that is here for people to hook up with like minded people is used by the minority to push their own agenda's. I am sorry if my cheating offends you but please don't abuse.
Im totaly on your side mark, my sarcasm was aimed at the previous posttrying to take the moral high ground
you are right we dont know you but it doesnt matter what your background or situation, cheating is cheating and a lot of people on here dont like it. if you have your wifes permission then thats different but obviously from you post you do not.
just for a minute think about how your life would change if you were caught out.
sorry to put a downer on your ideas about swinging but i feel if your cheating you should go to a cheaters site not a swingers site. i know its just my oppinion but its shared by lots
but on your side at least your telling people your married up front unlike sleaze who call themselves single or with someone.
mr Two
I understand what you are saying and accept you have a differing viewpoint to mine. But I don't go around 'preaching' and abusing people who have a different view to me. This was my forum looking for a lady, then some people came along and started abusing me. Unwanted and unwarranted. If you want to have a general discussion on cheating and whether that is acceptable on this or any other swingers site then make a forum for yourselves please.
Hard to believe that even on a swingers site there are so many holier than thou people sitting back and taking pot shots at others and justifying it by saying "there are a lot of people who don't like it" and other such feeble defences. There's lot of activities and behaviours on here that I don't particularly like either but it doesn't give me the right to have a crack at everyone on here who does. Anyone who thinks posts should cater only for people who "like" them should stay away from the internet let alone a contacts web-site and to try and elevate "swinging" above "cheating" as if there's some sort of moral scale is laughable. I'll bet that 99% of "swingers" on here don't discuss their activities with work colleagues or family for fear of being ----Judged (as immoral).
I cant believe that there are people on here that are so hypocritical....... They are passing judgement on others, when if someone was to dare pass judgement on their choice of lifestyle would scream blue bloody murder.
Each to their own and you don't have to like it but then who cares what others think.
"Look in the mirror, stare back at yourself and if you can't honestly say that you're perfect, then you have a right to judge the person standing beside you. "
Lots of Love.
Seriously guys, this is a terrible reaction to this mans request.
You have no right to comments on his lifestyle and choice of hiding from his wife.
He is being honest enough to US to say she doesn't know, if he was truly dishonest he would simply say, single, want to eat pussy.
I am appalled at the response, youd think they were responses from teenagers on facebook "trolling" .
Love the link, baycouple.
Thanks for sharing.
Thanks TemptedTwo,
It is truely amazing what you find on the Internet these days.
The Bays
The first thing we picked up on is you say she does not let you anymore , the first thing you need to do is talk with her and ask her why she wont let you go down on her any more , Just maybe your not doing it right for her and need to change the way you do it , so the issue may not be with her it maybe yourself and you dont even know it and its become boring for her
Communication is the key or maybe you just go down there for a couple of short minutes and it does nothing for her
If by chance if you do get caught out we wouldnt want to be in your shoes , be honest with her mate unless your willing to take a chance on loosing every thing you have , is it realy worth it ?
Melbcpl01
Lots of lovely advice. I must really say thanks to all the people for their advice. I don't want to bare my soul to the world (especially after some of the posts that have been put on here) but suffice to say I have talked with her and I know why she won't let me go down on her. It is not the way I do it - always had her orgasm with my tongue. And it took longer than the cursory minute or two! lol
Love the link Bay, we now have a new name for them, Mingles, which is more flattering than the previous name we had for them. As a couple we get the messages from single guys cheating in a relationship, but we never get to meet them given that we have a policy of speaking to both partners on the phone before meeting. Some approach us calling themselves singles, but they invariably give themselves away at some point.
We understand what they are trying to do, but it is just sad that they think they can improve their position by being deceitful not only to their partners, but to us as well.
I really don't think it is anyone's business what people do or don't tell their partners. Mark, has made an "honest request" . I really think we should respect the fact that he did not lie ( after all he didn't have to tell anyone about his wife knowing or not knowing...)
Keep it simple, a simple "accept" or "decline" should be the response to his request...This is not a church so stop preaching people....Have fun and if you can not say something nice don't say anything at all.
Mark, all the best dude...I am sure there are many people who don't tell their partners....;-) and remember discretion should be assumed, you don't need to tell people " discretion is a must"
We are here to have fun not to get married and live happily ever after...
Mate, There are always people who think they are always right,just learn to ignore them...:-)
Good luck and take care.
Now I havent seen him the thread owner, have an attack at anyone here. He as asked that you take all comments, to another thread.
This as been taken off topic.
If you want to take this further. Then take it to another thread, in another area, or to site emails, with the person concerned.
Lets bring it back on topic.