Your Thoughts

Back in 2011 while having drinks with workmates on a Friday evening I met a lovely lady who was also having drinks with her workmates. We had both had just a drink each when we started chatting. We ended up getting a room and fucking late into the night. Last week, I realised that she is now working in the same organisation as I am and is on the same floor as me. I work in a very large organisation and even though we are on the same floor. we are on opposite sides of the floor. I recognised her the moment I saw her but I am unsure if she has.

What are your thoughts on my approaching her and bringing up the fact that we have met before. Your thoughts would be really appreciated. We both had an amazing night back in 2011.

Cheers.

There must have been a reason why it was a one night stand. Why was there no contact after this night? Maybe find out her personal situation before you approach her. She may be perfectly happy with her current situation and your reappearance may not be welcome. Things can become very uncomfortable for her at work, which I'm sure you wouldn't want. If she remembers you and wants to get involved with you, she'll see you and will make an excuse to bump into you. Or you could just jump right in and deal with the consequences later!

Have to agree with Flygirl .. did you exchange numbers that night ?... if no one followed anything ... was probably supposed to be that one night only.

I would play it cool .. like Flygirl says... if she notices you and wants to say hi .. she will work a way to do it .. 

you can also be the friendly ... "hey"  or smile  if you cross paths 

Don't go for the jugular ... could back fire 

Good Luck xxx

Thank you Fly & Bacon. The reason we did not exchange numbers at the time was because she was going through a tough time with a separation and we thought that we would bump into each other again in the CBD. I have not approached or made any contact for the same reasons that you have mentioned and was thinking of letting things happen if they are to.

Having said that, our paths crossed each others in the kitchen this morning as we both went to get a cuppa at the same time. She smiled and I said Hi to her. While making my coffee I did notice that she kept looking my way a cpl of times. I also did notice that she did take a walk around my side of the floor on the pretext of collecting printouts from the printer on my side of the floor (she has two printers on her side of the floor). I am unsure if she has recognised me and remembers that encounter and like me is unsure what to do. I will wait and see if she makes more attempts to deliberately let our paths cross or keeps coming to my side of the floor when for all intents and purposes she does not have to.

Your thoughts are really appreciated, thank you.

Cheers,

Catzman

Thanks Fly & bacon...have made contact. She had noticed me the first day she was on the floor but was scared to make contact as well. Cheers.

nice one ...goodluck ;)

Play it cool and slowly...this could progress back to where it started if the chips fall in your favour..would be keen to hear if it does 

Hi Peter_Jane, Thanks for your comments. Yes, I have been taking it slow and letting her indicate if she wanted to go there again. We have been having coffees at work since last Thursday. This morning when we got a coffee she asked if I had anything planned for the evening and I said that I had nothing planned as such. We ended up walking to the station together this evening as we are on the same train line, however she lives much closer to the CBD. When we were at her station and as she was getting up to get off instead of saying bye, she asked me to get off with her. Not having time to find out why, I got of as well. She then said that she would like to show me her place, which was actually quite close to the station. We had a coffee at her place and chatted for a while. I got the feeling that she wanted me to make a move but I decided to take it easy and not rush it this evening. I am thinking that I may have to bring the subject up with her.

Cheers.

sounds like you are playing it very well...slow and steady wins the race..

Hello all, we got together again on Wednesday evening after work and things started happening. This time she did not leave me in any doubt. We had another lovely catchup last evening as well.

Well played catzman....always great to hear the success stories.

Good one

Thanks everyone, appreciate your thoughts.

The key question is whether you will introduce her to the site.? Is this a side of you she knows about...

I have broached the subject with her and I have logged on with her a cpl of times in the past week. She has not committed one way or another. Has been happy to just look at the moment.