would like your thoughts

26 Oct 2011

ok here I go I have been married since I was 21 and my wife was 18, I am the only guy she has been with so she tells me and I have no reason to not belive her, I have spoken to her about swinging or having a threesome, I told her another male would be ok, she thinks I do not mean it but in my mind this is all about her, she will not go to a swingers club so I am woundering if there are any places that swingers go to meet, pubs or clubs that couples go to, my wife has said to me if it is to happen it would just be a spur of the moment thing, so over to the expurts, I hope you will not be too hard on me

7 Nov 2011

Hi, The spur of the moment thing is unlikely to ever crop up so don't hold your breath on that one. Maybe you could change your profile to a couple and get her involved on here. You don't have to go looking for a meet straight away - just get her involved to "check out the scene". As she gets used to the site she might want to get more involved. Good luck!