womens expectations on this site

4 Mar 2012

in my opinion I think that some women on here expatiations are high.. or am I wrong?

4 Mar 2012

i think some are yes same as some men and some couples smile

but then you have a few who dont

4 Mar 2012

i love my expectations... But i takethat as my likes.... Just cause i swing, doesnt mean Im just going to expect to play with some one, .... Expect folks to have manners and respect and not gonna happen... even with swingers. What my expectation is, i go with what i know feels right for me.

4 Mar 2012

omg do you think this is a free for all casual sex site, is it your proposition women are here for your pleasure well here's a wake up call they are here for their own pleasure you might be lucky enough to be involved but there's no right implied to be involved with anyone

4 Mar 2012

Quote by Buff_Aussie
in my opinion I think that some women on here expatiations are high..
or am I wrong?

We would say that you are NOT wrong one bit, just as we would also say that there is not a thing wrong with those same women having those same high expectations as it is, when all is said and done, about the likes and preferences of the seeking individual.
Besides which, the comment could be just as countered by saying (or asking as it were) does the same apply to single/solo men and couples?
We would say that there are many many people within the swinging scene who have extremely high expectations, whether we (or you, or others) consider these expectations to be to high is not for us to say as after all, again it is an individual preference and choice as to what one seeks.
However, with that all said and done there are far more people on this site that have realistic or perhaps even low expectations and eventually it all comes done to likes, dislikes, connection, locality and availability.

4 Mar 2012

G'day mate

Quote by Buff_Aussie
in my opinion I think that some women on here expectations are high.. or am I wrong?

One of the problems with generalising is that it is nearly always wrong - as there is always two sides to any issue. So I will answer with my thoughts and observations
I am on this site as part of a couple - and my lover is quite emphatic about what sorts of bloke she wants to play with ... and she chooses her play-blokes very carefully.
She wants a good sexual experience with lots of pleasuring > not a qwik fuk and then "i'm off luv, gotta go" sort of comment. She wants a couple of blokes to become 'regulars' and to get this, she's determined to by-pass any fella who's not into pleasuring before fukking
Can you see where she's coming from? .... does this give you some ideas as to which direction you might need to look into?
Regards, Phil

5 Mar 2012

Quote by Buff_Aussie
in my opinion I think that some women on here expatiations are high..
or am I wrong?

mate, can you elaborate a bit on what you are saying............i could take that a couple of different ways........

5 Mar 2012

Buff_Aussie - How would you feel about meeting a woman's low or even no expectations?

5 Mar 2012

i got none but would like a similar age thats all but no one seems to give us a chance lol so meh im just here for fun now lol

6 Mar 2012

Quote by Buff_Aussie
in my opinion I think that some women on here expatiations are high..
or am I wrong?

mmm joined in february and has an opinion on females expectations...............do we have gods gift???

10 Mar 2012

Quote by monkeyspunker
in my opinion I think that some women on here expatiations are high..
or am I wrong?

mmm joined in february and has an opinion on females expectations...............do we have gods gift???
monkey it doesn't take long to workout does
it?
it was an observation, I was doing...

10 Mar 2012

Maybe someone just joined and has high expectations on getting laid just because its a sex site could be the answer . And women being out numbered many times by males on these type of sights we dont think its realy a case of high expectations just they can be more choosey when it comes to who they meet Would you settle for the sour lollies when you can have the sweetest top shelf ones to pick from Melbcpl01

11 Mar 2012

Quote by melbcpl01
Maybe someone just joined and has high expectations on getting laid just because its a sex site could be the answer .
And women being out numbered many times by males on these type of sights we dont think its realy a case of high expectations just they can be more choosey when it comes to who they meet
Would you settle for the sour lollies when you can have the sweetest top shelf ones to pick from
Melbcpl01

well said melb couple smile

but i must put it out there i prefer the Sour to Sweet lollies

14 Mar 2012

It has a great deal to do with the ratio of men to women on sites like these. Also, a lot of men can manage to get a hard on for almost anything, but women tend to be more selective. Some men don't make an effort to even dress well, yet expect women to wear lingerie, have their hair done etc the same men think that "Wanna fuck?" is all we want to hear