When you ask or mention

When you ask or mention about someones status on line. That one thing, that lets others know if your in a relationship or not. 

Now for me, if it saids, nothing. Well normally its a good indication they have something to hide. IE married or taken. Playing without permission. In the terms of swinging, that for me is a NO NO.. (Im so old school) Mind you my profile does say I dont play.  

Now I do ask, in one way or another, why no status and are they married and such or solo... Its amazing, what folks, come back with it. AND on the odd occasion, have even copped insults and abuse... (Fancy that, specially as Im a mod) So I have been told.. lol But its a normal question for most to ask.

My impression as a solo member is this... PPFFTTTT no wonder chicks dont want to get on and chat, most, not all :) Cause really... ITS not the way to get what you want on here...meet my block list :) Two as a mod, PPFFTTTT  insulting folks cause they knock you back, also gets you a strike :) 

Thoughts?

Good insite.. well i am single but have fb.. thats the truth

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Good insite.. well i am single but have fb.. thats the truth

Thank you.. its todays good deed

Some food for thought.

Yes, I'm married

Yes, Lrig knows I am on here and would sit beside me on the pappy and chat

Yes we talk as we have no secrets.

I'm not bothered if people think it's all wind. ( pick a cafe in gosford and we will both be there)

But everyone has a reason for playing with or without the partners knowledge. I won't judge and still meet, but others will not even entertain the thought. Ultimately SH is an adult site that promotes a lifestyle. If singles get upset then join something that promotes what you want. Swinging in my eyes is a couples thing. Most couples do state that with in there interests and looking for. It does get a bit confusing however, when a profile clearly states NO Singles but in "the looking" for they select a single sex whether it be Straight, bi or bi-cirious. Male or female.

I do take folks as they come.. yes Im solo.. BUT i chose to ask. Because I know how I would feel, if partner was off playing behind my back. .. So I look for, that married or solo sign. And also ask. But I dont have to play with them. OR solo of a couple. Without having spoken to both. Swinging is about honesty, your right. So getting abused back, because you ask that dreaded question by so few. PPFFTTTT Shows alot...

no need for abuse, just answer the questions asked, if you get knocked back suck it up and move on. treat the site like a pub/club. you don't get abusive at a venue when you get knocked back. if you do the bouncer intervenes. just because somebody is on here doesn't mean they arnt picky with who they want to go to bed with

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no need for abuse, just answer the questions asked, if you get knocked back suck it up and move on. treat the site like a pub/club. you don't get abusive at a venue when you get knocked back. if you do the bouncer intervenes. just because somebody is on here doesn't mean they arnt picky with who they want to go to bed with

 Oh im picky... but considering supposedly im the mean mod... lol I have a right to be picky lol But i was told by this person, I should get off the computer, more.. And leave all these lovely folks, alone.. what fun would that be lmao

Well Rose, if your ladle wears thin I can just send you a new one;)

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Well Rose, if your ladle wears thin I can just send you a new one;)

 lmao... shows.. from when i tap my feet, would be better :P

hand goes up to be a poof.  

yes we would agree some just need to get over them selves I don't get the its complicated relationship please , river has no issue with married men playing as long as they are honest and yes this is an adult site and ln my experience its ladies choice if u cant handle no don't be on such sites . Enjoy 

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 Oh im picky... but considering supposedly im the mean mod... lol I have a right to be picky lol But i was told by this person, I should get off the computer, more.. And leave all these lovely folks, alone.. what fun would that be lmao

 lifes about fun, as long as your not caught lol