hiya, pics and cams aren't for everyone. certainly not for us, and we have our reasons.
it is a nice idea but not a practical one for every couple on this site. so, in essence, there is nothing "wrong" with us, it is just the way we roll.
having said that we think there are some lovely pics to be seen on here.
Deux!
there is a private album option available to everyone so you can upload a picture.
If you dont want to do the face shots at all thats personal preference, but throw up a pic of your hand or foot that'd get people looking twice lol.
Thanks Sammi.
Yes, we are aware of private galleries.
We get a bit of pressure to cam and show pics, and generally we laugh it off. But it can be intense sometimes.
Honestly? It's just not for us. Don't think that means there is somehow something "wrong" with us, is all we are saying.
No doubt it has, and will, cost us meets and action into the future, but that is life.
We are happy in ourselves and comfortable with our choices - and we are still here and ready to play in our own terms.
Hopefully people respect that and don't see us as "wrong"!
Each to their own, and enjoy variety as the spice of life!
An interesting question actually and one in which the answer has a number of sides, all based on people's opinions we suspect.
Now we have pics on our profile, no face in public gallery but do have facial shots in the private gallery as we choose to be a little 'discreet' for ourselves on our public profile. That does not and should not be read as we are ashamed of our activities as we aren't, but more just a small 'safety' item for ourselves and no more, thus why we have facial shots in our PG.
For us, whilst it is not crucial that a profile have pics on the Public Gallery it is always a positive indication if they do have some form of pics, and they need not be facial shots. Certainly for us, the type of pic is important as we are not the type to find the cum shots, dick and pussy shots to be the most 'intriguing' to us, but will find a sexy classy type of shot far more appealing, but others are different.
Alternately for us, a well written profile with no public pics can be just as interesting as a well written profile with pics, simply because the profile may well have that 'wow' factor that attracts us and makes us interested. But, if no pics were available at all on the profile (public, private or otherwise) then we would not proceed to any level of meeting of the people/person involved.
Whilst that statement may seem harsh, for us we like to know who to look for when we make that decision to meet and not having a facial shot to go by does create a 'deer in the headlights' type of situation where you/we have provided one to the other party in good faith (and yes, we have been there). To us, if we are to meet another people via this or similar sites, it is courtesy that they and we know whom to look for at the designated meet place, and not just be two people chatting on a phone trying to identify the other.
Apologies if our vies offend anyone as that is not the intention, but we just feel that a basic facial shot available prior to any meet makes the meeting easier, and of course if one decides that looks are a sufficient reason to say no, after much chatting then that is that person's probable loss.
Shebagaz
Thanks sammi, we simply love the chatroom, met some great ppl through there. Yes, we have made our choice and stick by it and we have not been disadvantaged too much. Some really interesting points and perspectives brought up here in this thread. Good to see!
just to list a few ideas (sorry its the photographer in me )
so i invite those without a proifile photo to get one up...pun intended :) 
