Whats going on here a swinger heaven

Been a member here for many years, approx 10 under different profiles and the site has got to a point that the cams are mostly guys or guys on cpls profiles, you post an ad in forums and no one is interested unless your after a single guy. Most profiles you look at have no activity in over 90 days. Admin need to address this issue instead of just wanting our cash. WHere have all the swinging cpls gone.

Good point RR's. 

Im pleased im not the only one who noticed. 

Agreed, but they do seem to be making some visual changes to the site, which is a bonus 

I have noticed this too...its not what it used to be...far to many pretenders i think..
I am the male half and if i put my cam on i get mainly blokes watching and if its a couple you can bet its the male half of the couple watching...where are the ladies??
Having said that my mrs doesnt like to go on cam anymore. When we first got on here there were tons of couples and single ladies camming and all having fun but it really has dropped off of late

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Agreed, but they do seem to be making some visual changes to the site, which is a bonus 

 Not sure it's a bonus really, home page is continually cluttered up with cr*p

Agree with all of the above, but do a search say for couples in your state with your age range and other filters,  and Bingo, I would say 60 to 70% have a joined date but it lists them as "never"  been on since joining. Remove these profiles so we don't waste endless time and SH looks good with non using members....lets clean things up admin

Make a good point , stuff I get too has 90 plus days & never been on type of thing. If Tjey are not active then get rid of them off the filter system 

We took time off and like the changes. This site is like most others where it turns over members so the demographic changes.  There's a filter for last on in searches.

Also need to remember some people don't hook up every week, they're here just a few times a year for a bit of fun or use it just for parties

Some couples we know don't come on chat anymore because of being harassed by "single" men who can't or don't bother reading

We also agree with everything mentioned. Far too many males seem to be flashing their goods on cam without their partners more often than not. We havnt been live on cam for awhile but we will soon. But please guys, if I want to see a cock being tugged I'd watch my man, but if I want another I will let you know! But atm, ladies & cples are our thing for sure hehe

Also another thing, don't ask if we are into threesomes or more when our profile pics clearly show that we are!!....durr

Let all our sexy cples share,play and enjoy our fun lifestyle without the idiots that seem to ruin the fun we like to have in the chatroom.

Enjoy xx

we have notice there a lof of single  on couple  ads to and female just dont answer back at all, thinking of taking ourself of this site , it looks  like it not what we after here.

lets put it this way, lots of guys.. not all.. Show no respect, to women, when they do go on cam...They expect, women, to do as they direct/tell them what they do, just because they are on cam. They wont talk to the ladies in chat, only in whispers..Most chicks will see that as also showing no respect. As for the ratio, every adult site, always has more guys, then the couples and solo ladies cams or just plain chatters.. And a lot of females, will turn whispers, off, because they get jumped on, and get swallowed up so to speak. Folks seem to assume, that just an hi, will get some ones attention, then the next comment, lets fuck, will mean they are in. 

Have been here since chat started, and its what i have seen and noticed over all that time. There have been many posts over the years, on this matter. As well as amazing hints, on how to get further. 

Oh as a PS just because they are a couple, doesnt mean they have to both be on cam. Maybe if folks, treated, the ladies, with more respect, then whats been mentioned. things would change, well thats what im hoping.

Just my 2 cents worth

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agree rose. the amount of single men will always out number women, mrs two gets some crappy replies. men seem to think because your on a swingers site you will drop your panties and fuck anything with a dick.

great point made I have been looking through the dogging areas and found a couple of what I call OUTSTANDING ERRORS

1.   Each dogging site or reference to any should have a POST CODE most of the places on there are listed however we live in a huge country/State.

2.   On closer inspection nearly 98% of entries are several years out of date which begs the question are they still viable or not.

I have been searching for dogging sites around Bundaberg (4670) only to be getting the run around due to these two points i listed.

Hopefully Admin will read this comment and take action so we can all enjoy the fruits and pleasures of our swinger's lifestyle.

SW and Admin won't do anything about it and here are the reason why?

1) Over the past 10 years there's been a number of post about this subject about deleting Ads and profile and nothing has been done about it, if you think your getting the run around with NO lucky just imagine deleting a good 70%+ this place would look like a ghost town.

2) Only a few year ago there was like 188,000 member, so go to personals and you can see what the problem is??
The number just don't add up.
Men seeking men is 111 vs couples seeking  couples 64, If your a bi/gay male your in prim position to score.

3) Even if there was someone near to do dogging the chances of meeting them is pretty rare.

I am sure the number of swinging couples and single ladies have gone up in society but not many seem to be registered here. And the ones that are on this site, not sure how many are genuine profiles. 

Unfortunately, there are some single guys who register as a couple which is unfair. And when you contact, they say only the male is playing and they are looking for a female. 

Another thing I noticed is that many couples are looking for a Bi or Gay male and that makes it harder for single straight guys. 

In the interest of members here, it will be great if Admin inform all here and then delete profiles that have been inactive for too long. Also they need to encourage existing active and contributing members by providing rating, points, bonus or other benefits as some other adult sites do.

This is an awesome site and it is in our hands how we make it a worthwhile and sex'citing group of members! 

Question to admin: At what date or why wont you delete the 10 year old requests for contacts and the last on line unfinancial 3 to 5 years  ago profiles  I just been clicking stop the dead end search results for current state your policy please reply your members are continually asking for your answer.

careful with comments guys. i got banned few years ago for Onsite dobbing in group bashing guys at WGP etc so clearly theres some Dodginess afoot yet this site does fall into the darker side of that thin line most of us cross more than others then go online to share also should be much harder to start a membership as have known several first hand instances of criminals on here meeting up for fun & stealing personal items, knocking over homes, cars & taking identities.
-Last week, Westgate Park and Footscray Park were reported as sites of recent attacks by groups of men. The reports follow more alleged attacks
-Quinn Tough, 22, and her friend had just arrived at Westgate Park, when they were approached by a man who asked them for a cigarette. When Ms Tough said she didn't have any to spare, she said the man launched a brutal attack on her."Before I know it I'm hit and then as I'm looking up my bag's gone. I grab my bag and then I'm hit again. My girlfriend is grabbing his leg and then she gets kicked off," Ms Tough told the Tough pleaded for help from another man standing nearby, not realising that he was with her attacker.

-I think there has been a bit of violence/theft there over the years (gay bashings or robbery—after all, a lot of guys there on the down low who aren’t going to report things)

-Dude. I took my dog for a walk the other day just before sunset (it’s within 5km) and I was full on stalked by a guy. Followed me when I walked and lurked behind trees looking at me and my dog when we stopped. At one point I made eye contact to let him know I was aware, he didn’t avert his gaze. Gave him a few chances to move on by staying put longer than I needed, with my dog chewing sticks, then kept moving and he would follow me deeper into the woods. I also saw him scope out the area repeatedly to make sure no one else was around. Could see him in the corner of my following down a path when I decided to pick up the pace a bit and exit the park via a driveway to the main road. Mind you I’m a 6’3 male that weighs more than 90kg but dude was of similar size and something was very off. Actually drove my dog home and called the cops to tell them that dude was up to no good… first time I called them in 10 years. This was last week.

-I was cycling through too late one night (prelockdown) and almost ran over 2 men at different times, walking alone in the dark, no torches. Scared the shit out of me. I ain’t going back there in a hurry.

Melbourne users of the hookup website Squirt are using the app to report danger areas for homophobic assaults. Last week, Westgate Park and Footscray Park were reported as sites of recent attacks by groups of men. The reports follow more in Footscray Park earlier this year.

One user wrote, “Beware there is a group of dickheads around here looking for trouble. There is about 8 of them.” Another left the comment, “Fuck I just escaped with my life. I was about to go to the dunnies when 5 or 6 guys jumped out of the bushes with bars … have the police showed up yet?”

Had very mixed information about a guy with a knife, from many people, and then about 2 hours later the police came through, shut the event down, and set up a crime scene with tape around the entire toilets / pagoda area - we all left of course but are wondering if anyone has any information about what might have happened!

just some educating material of real world for some to peruse so they know rather than slander off ruining site by breacking rules & social respect. we are all human & equal no ones better than anyone else in Aus with or without a cock

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careful with comments guys. i got banned few years ago for Onsite dobbing in group bashing guys at WGP etc so clearly theres some Dodginess afoot yet this site does fall into the darker side of that thin line most of us cross more than others then go online to share also should be much harder to start a membership as have known several first hand instances of criminals on here meeting up for fun & stealing personal items, knocking over homes, cars & taking identities

You do write some absolute rubbish!!