Being new to this forum, I am the Mrs part of this couple. Although a little excited about the coming possibilities, I am also a little freaked that part of the reason for my husband living out this fantasy is that he gets off on the sight of cock? Do straight men get off on that or is it really gay men in the closet that get off on that? I see so many bi curious married men on here that my heart goes out to their unsuspecting wives. Can someone offer some insight as I feel like we are attracted to one sex or another? Can he be attracted to cock and not be physically attracted to the man as he says?
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What does bi curious mean
No one knows what causes each individual to be aroused.
It may be he is curious about touching another penis
Maybe giving or receiving fellatio
Maybe giving or receiving anal sex
Maybe (and I suspect this is most likely from what you have written) he wants ot see you with another penis, holdiing it, fellatio, intercourse - while he watches or joins in.
You should probably discuss all of the above
I consider myself straight, not bi curious, yet I very much enjoy MFM and watching another guy naked and pleasuring a lady with me. I have no desire to engage in direct MM sexual activity and would not consider a one on one meet with another male.
Communication is the key, but I think he can be interested in seeing another's penis, be aroused by the thought of sharing with you, yet definitely NOT be gay. He may be truly bisexual and enjoy sexual encounters with both genders.
Hope that helps
Hi there:
We state 'Curious' as neither of us like kissing same sex partners and neither of us like anal. We should probably say that we are bi-light rather than full on.
Having said that we are both oral and pretty full on in the heat of battle! Both of us get turned on by the sight of a hard cock and by a naked girl.
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For us it means that we are genuinely not sure of our limits as we are very much 'go with the flow' type of people and for us to put 'bisexual' is outright misleading as nothing may happen, just as straight is not quite 100% correct either
Sheba has played with girls, but has never had full sex with another female but is comfortable that if the personality and connection was right then who knows whilst Gazz doesn't mind a bit of touch etc but has no interest in in sex with a guy. Who knows, the right person/people may come along and we all get wound up in a moment.
But on reading your comments we would stress that perhaps you have a good talk to your husband before your proceed as you have highlighted something of serious concern to you which will make you uncomfortable in some situations, and perhaps cause you serious issues in terms of enjoyment or lack thereof
While I appreciate the feedback, I do have to say that over the years my hubby and I have discussed the topic thoroughly and i still do not understand as I am only turned on by men.
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while i , lonely am straight , Heavens feels she Bi Curious because , whilst she is perfectly hapy to play with another lady ,,, in fact she rather enjoys it , she has no desire to do so unless she also has cock to play with at the same time
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I (Mr) over the years have moved from being Bi-curious to being Bi-sexual. It was not without the knowledge of my lovely wife either. When I was in my later teen years I was turned on by both sexes and although kept it to myself didn't feel that it was anything unusual when watching porn with my wife that I was getting aroused by the men on the screen whilst enjoying my wife as well. I did admit that I had an interest in men to my wife and with out surprise she had a feeling I did ( A wife knows all :smile
I only classed myself as being Bi-sexual when I crossed that line from watching to being active with men. We have since enjoyed an encounter with another guy. This has been more so MMF and I have also had MM time. I am able to say with out a doubt that I enjoy the feel and taste of a good hard cock but would never pass up the feel and taste of my ladies pussy ever. p.s. Mrs Curiouscplsa really enjoys watching me suck cock 
So fear not it maybe a new adventure that could bring enjoyment to your life also and I am glad that he feels comfortable enough to discuss it with you. Sounds like you two have a good relationship.
I only classed myself as being Bi-sexual when I crossed that line from watching to being active with men. We have since enjoyed an encounter with another guy. This has been more so MMF and I have also had MM time. I am able to say with out a doubt that I enjoy the feel and taste of a good hard cock but would never pass up the feel and taste of my ladies pussy ever. p.s. Mrs Curiouscplsa really enjoys watching me suck cock
So fear not it maybe a new adventure that could bring enjoyment to your life also and I am glad that he feels comfortable enough to discuss it with you. Sounds like you two have a good relationship. 