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Time Wasters
Maybe we need a sticky topic for this as these "Does anyone get anywhere on this site" questions pop up a lot. And nearly always from single guys who have no photos or descriptive info in their profiles. Perhaps the registration process should include a short guide and then a quiz to ensure people have read the guide. ;-)
Ah peter ... its an age old question .... there was great meet and greet on the weekend .... and yes lots of people do meet .....
We hear this complaint ALOT from single males...some assume because its a swingers site that it equals easy sex .....right so when has anything been that easy???
I totally agree with Temptedtwo .... add as much info on your profile as you can......people here have lives and families and shit happens.....they have to cancel ... and i'd be much happier that people have the courtesy to let you know they need to reschedule or cancel than not say a damn word ...
Jazz
Orgasminator
*Checks out Petermelb's profile
*Sigh* Why bother having a profile with nothing on it. No pics, no likes or dislikes. Would you go window shopping blindfolded?
Go to meets, get in the chat rooms and chat (not just lurk) and you might be pleasantly surprised!
I must have been asleep when they said you can sign up on this site and all the other husbands and boy friends let you have free goes at their mrs and you dont have to do a thing just join .
History shows us you can want as many and as often as you like but if by chance you get a lady friend from this she is off limits and your off the site, these are the real swingers NOT yet they complain a hell of a lot about time wasters.
I tend to agree with most of the comments about single guys.
Hubby and I have managed to meet a few couples from here. There are not a lot in our area, and yes some of them are timewasters and either pull back from meetings, or surprise surprise, tell you that the lady is not that interested but has given full permission for him to play on his own (Do you guys REALLY think we will buy that one???). When we send a message or text looking to meet up and don't get a reply for 2 weeks, then get one saying how keen they are....it is sort of contradictory! Guys - you need to get it together!
Out of the couples and the single males we have attempted to catch up with, by far the ones that usually follow through with the least amount of hassle and run around have been the couples.
I am not saying there aren't game players amongst the couples, only that from our experiences, there are way less hassles from couples than single males.
I have also noticed that the couples on sites like this one are more into meeting and getting to know people rather than deciding a planned meeting based purely on pictures. I for one prefer to meet people rather than judge by pics....I connect with people, not pictures. This 'feels' much more like a swingers site (which it is) than some of the others.
If you are just looking for some NSA fun, particularly single males, this is probably not the best site for it, and probably the reason why many single males are not taken overly serious around here, unless you are prepared to get to know the lady/couple that you wish to engage with.
Just my thoughts......but this is a far better couples site than a singles (particularly male) site.
Happygirl
Sexlightened
That i hate ppl who dnt turn up i wipe em there n then And i am Certainly Not One Of Them . :-)
Sex God
Im sure the gentlemen is having a chuckle, seeing that he posted 2 of the same type messages in one day on the same matter.
Please remember, on this site, one blue icon only means, its a solo male, not a single male.... as a solo male can also be some one in a relationship.....as a girlfriend, but profile isnt placed, so on and so on.
I would think as long as folks, say sorry something as come up..... cool.. its folks, that dont message, that gets under my skin..
As to the ops question.. a site is only as good as what your your not expecting.
If your expecting your... a god, and will get laid the min you type the H in hi ... then you will more then likely feel your wasting your time.
Many good points said. Many folks, it seems as this expectation, that all swingers, or at least, 90 percent, will swing, the moment you type, that letter H..... seems it cant be more from the truth.
Quote by Petermelb
Does anyone ever get anywhere here or is just another time wasting website with time wasting people?. A number of people advertised meeting then surprise surprise cancel at the last minute. Just wondering?
Peter, I thought you got all the answers when you last asked the question - http://www.swingersheaven.com.au/fFmqyL22ertlKqmY
Seriously here for a minute mate, give it as rest as if you have to rehash the same old topic then it may be best that you leave the site as obviously things just are not working for you.
