Some courtesy in replying

Why can't people show some courtesy in replying to messages, it takes little effort and time. Is it because half accounts are catfish. Can't believe all people are that rude 😠 and selfish 😒 as I've had the pleasure 😍 of meeting some lovely people and very thankful 😁 for those experiences.. This is SwingersHeaven not FarkuBook, be kind, have fun, be humble🤗💋...

OTOH, if people we don't want to hear from keep contacting us when our profile clearly says not to,

what do they think would happen?

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OTOH, if people we don't want to hear from keep contacting us when our profile clearly says not to,

what do they think would happen?

Your talking about thristy fucks that don't have the decency to read a profile. Don't assume we're all like that, you've never read or received a message from me, so your comment means fuck all here, but I do hope you feel better for venting...

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Your talking about thristy fucks that don't have the decency to read a profile. Don't assume we're all like that, you've never read or received a message from me, so your comment means fuck all here, but I do hope you feel better for venting...

Ummmm, with replies like that, no wonder you do get many replies. We only reply if they person suits what we have in our profile

I'll talk to lots of people I'll tell them if I like there profile or if there pics are great if the person or couple sent looking for me or my type and don't reply I don't care if I'm asking for more I'd appreciate a yes or no response but hay if not we'll I'm not holding my breath so again it doesn't matter

I tend to agree that a simple "thanks but no thanks" would be polite.

I try to reply to people , but sometimes you get so many inboxes it just becomes time consuming. I tend to also think if the person doesn’t get a reply , it’s a thanks but no thanks

We try and reply to everyone who reaches out via message. Will ignore if the same person/s have emailed multiple times after our first response. Chatroom we are a little less tolerant on PM's. If someone is polite most of the time we will respond, but some of the opening lines simply do not warrant a response

If someone sends us a message that has clearly not read what is in our profile why would we take time to reply? We will however reply to every message that actually fits our criteria, even if we think we may not suit.

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If someone sends us a message that has clearly not read what is in our profile why would we take time to reply? We will however reply to every message that actually fits our criteria, even if we think we may not suit.

Which is what it's all about. Good on you. umm, by the way, I'm not messaging with intent.. ;-)

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I try to reply to people , but sometimes you get so many inboxes it just becomes time consuming. I tend to also think if the person doesn’t get a reply , it’s a thanks but no thanks

And not only that, you may not have space to store all these "inboxes"

I never get inboxes, maybe the courier can't find my address..

I don't really mind when I send a message and not a get a reply.

But I am more curious to find why a few start a conversation and discontinue midway without any reason.

To clarify, I always have decent conversations here and anywhere for that matter because I respect people.

I would rather not receive messages from these half baked persons in the making.

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I don't really mind when I send a message and not a get a reply.

But I am more curious to find why a few start a conversation and discontinue midway without any reason.

To clarify, I always have decent conversations here and anywhere for that matter because I respect people.

I would rather not receive messages from these half baked persons in the making.

I have had serval people and couples contact me on here and before you can even reply, im blocked. Respect is gone and the age of self centred is upon us

I reply, maybe because I don't get the volume other members receive.

Sometimes my last line is if I'm not your kinda guy just let me no Yay (thumbs up) or Nay (thumbs down)? 👌

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Why can't people show some courtesy in replying to messages, it takes little effort and time. Is it because half accounts are catfish. Can't believe all people are that rude 😠 and selfish 😒 as I've had the pleasure 😍 of meeting some lovely people and very thankful 😁 for those experiences.. This is SwingersHeaven not FarkuBook, be kind, have fun, be humble🤗💋...

Sorry, but as a female that's been here for years, guys can get out of control with the harassment and not taking no for an answer. In most cases, it's simply best not to engage in the first place. As we've seen with a comment of yours above... some can get VERY touchy and aggressive if responses aren't as they planned. Let alone, in reality.. no one owes anyone anything. If you don't get a response, move on. They're clearly not interested. NO ONE should be responding to anyone if they don't feel connected or attracted. It's has nothing to with being polite or selfish or anything. I get enough inboxes and do not wish to waste my time sitting there going, Sorry, not my type.. sorry, not interested, sorry... you didn't read my profile. AND THEN, have them respond aggressively, or pushy, or even having to block them while blocks don't seem to work so well anymore and the obsessive inboxing still occurs. If you don't get a response, pull your pants up and move on like a big boy. Simple.

But reading "I get on here to try chat with like minded people, but seeming rare to find, way to many hiding behind keyboards, completely full of shit, or entitled with head stuck up own their own arse!" from your profile.,... but expecting responses to be polite and people to be opening and welcoming. I think you'll find you're actually sounding like your ENTITLED to a response!?