Has any one encountered people on this site ,who are actually operating as prostitutes / gigilo's.
I have encountered 2 such situations in the last week. One a lady, after chatting & arranging too meet tells me she charges $150-00 per 1/2 hour & the same with a bi couple Who charge $100-00 per session.
I will always offer to pay to help cover costs of motel rooms etc but If someone wants to solicit for sex ,there are other sites where they can offer thier services.
Just wondering if anyone else has come across the same situation.
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Soliciting on site
soliciting in anyway shape or form is against the site AUp and people cna find themsleves being banned from the site for doing so.
Anything that involves someone saying they will meet or give them something in return for them paying anything is considered soliciting and it needs to be reported to a moderator.
Sex God
name and shame them we say or just meet them tell them they are no good and its going to cost them 50 bucks for wasting your time lol
Melbcpl01
Sex God
Quote by MissT
I am not here to solicit, but here to chat when I have time and post when I can..... I have always been upfront with people who contact me that I am not here to meet them for random fun times but will chat about anything and everything. Hope thats ok!
MissT thats fine.. chatting doesnt hurt at any time.
but it as been explained, what can happen to folks, who do in previous posts, though
Even working girls, deserve time off to chill :)
Sex God
So how do adult clubs go that post on SH with the taking of money to provide a service , would this fall into the same bracket as in the end its for someones own personal financial gain
At the prices charged one or two people would cover the cost of the night the rest is pure profit and this can run into 4 $$$$ figures for a single night
Melbcpl01
Sex God
Quote by melbcpl01
So how do adult clubs go that post on SH with the taking of money to provide a service , would this fall into the same bracket as in the end its for someones own personal financial gain
At the prices charged one or two people would cover the cost of the night the rest is pure profit and this can run into 4 $$$$ figures for a single night
Melbcpl01
One i would say.. they are considered a legit service *so to speak* Being abn and so would be needed.. for adult clubs to be run. And as we all know. Working girls in OZ arnt considered legit.
so most of comes down to the rules.. of the country
Sex God
Quote by TheRose
So how do adult clubs go that post on SH with the taking of money to provide a service , would this fall into the same bracket as in the end its for someones own personal financial gain
At the prices charged one or two people would cover the cost of the night the rest is pure profit and this can run into 4 $$$$ figures for a single night
Melbcpl01
One i would say.. they are considered a legit service *so to speak* Being abn and so would be needed.. for adult clubs to be run. And as we all know. Working girls in OZ arnt considered legit.
so most of comes down to the rules.. of the country
Most if not all councils in Melbourne consider them as illeagal brothels being run from a private home maybe SH need to get a ABN off the clubs that promote them selves on here to be fair if they dont already
The illeagal brothel / swingers club situation has even got into the media a few times both local and state news tv and radio in the past
Melbcpl01
Clubs dont provide the service of exchange cash for sex they provide the facility and the opportunity to meet people who may engage in sex with you .
It is entirely different to soliciting and prostitution.
As a couple we find the outrageous amount of money charged to desperate single men for the promise of potentially meeting someone who would have sex with is virtual prostitution of the couples female however no direct cash for sex occure's between participants, there is no obligation on the couple or female to participate ,
its not prostitution either but it walks like a duck and quacks like a duck must be a ?????
However we find the entry fees for attending are somewhat reasonable given the steam room spa sauna costs and cleaning and maintenance would be high and on going.
As to the legality like all ventures some are compliant and some aren't .
As to soliciting on this site we believe the moderated nature of chats and profiles would soon end any inappropriate profiles or offers.
Sex God
Quote by nice2benaughty
think you might want to get facts etc right before making such bold claims to things you really have no knowledge about.
But then again your always seeming to think you know everything about everything as your a "moderator" and that automatically means you know everything doesnt it.
Im sorry but where did i say i was right?
Let alone bold claims ??
Please drop me a line, i would love to hear your thoughts
But thanks for your input :)
Now where was we on this thread? :)
Warming the Bed
Quote by melbcpl01
So how do adult clubs go that post on SH with the taking of money to provide a service , would this fall into the same bracket as in the end its for someones own personal financial gain
At the prices charged one or two people would cover the cost of the night the rest is pure profit and this can run into 4 $$$$ figures for a single night
Melbcpl01
I would also think think that as long as they are listed in the swing clubs then one would have the idea that it is a business not just someone doing something on the side. Being able to list in the swing clubs section should be moderated so only approved (by admin) can be listed in there to maintain the reputation they they are quality establishments.
I think they were talking about how you said "working girls" were illegal in Australia, that's not true. It's perfectly legal in most states although all have conditions... I know a few people who worked in the industry when they were younger (each to their own, not my thing but I guess it is for some) and in QLD at least solo opperators are legal as long as all "services" are "safe" and only one on one.
I'm sure someone can post the actual state laws if anyone is interested... Again not promoting it, just trying to clear up that it's not illegal...
Sex God
Quote by Gagless
I think they were talking about how you said "working girls" were illegal in Australia, that's not true. It's perfectly legal in most states although all have conditions... I know a few people who worked in the industry when they were younger (each to their own, not my thing but I guess it is for some) and in QLD at least solo opperators are legal as long as all "services" are "safe" and only one on one.
I'm sure someone can post the actual state laws if anyone is interested... Again not promoting it, just trying to clear up that it's not illegal...
UUMM nope.. didnt say that either.. i said legit.
Said nothing about illegal
Quote by TheRose
Working girls in OZ arnt considered legit.
^ That's the one. Possibly a typo or miscommunication but still, made it look like it was illegal.
Again I totally agree people using this site for that should be reported, just didn't want people to think Australia was that backwards (we are only 50% backwards).
All of a sudden this post has gained legs and run , but on a slightly altered course.
In My original post I was meaning ,when a couple or a single person arranges to meet & then, when you do meet to talk &/or play they all of a sudden tell you that there is a fee involved for the service. The fee is for the sex not for sharing costs of a motel etc.
Sex God
Quote by psolis
All of a sudden this post has gained legs and run , but on a slightly altered course.
In My original post I was meaning ,when a couple or a single person arranges to meet & then, when you do meet to talk &/or play they all of a sudden tell you that there is a fee involved for the service. The fee is for the sex not for sharing costs of a motel etc.
thats soliciting
if you wish to pay for sex.... thats your choice.But would say its bad form of the folks concerned.. if they didnt say that till you get there
Warming the Bed
For what it's worth... This is a swingers site. Surely Swingers clubs should advertise on here. The original question posed related to a simple bait and switch technique that goes from swinging to prostitution. For me it's prety simple members who are here to solicit need to leave. On a lighter note though I pay for sex all the time it's called a mortgage ;-) Before that the usual rate was 5 vodkas and orange when I was at uni or 4 subzeroes lol. How many people remember subzeroes the original premixed drink??? Alcoholic
lemonade if I'm not mistaken.,
Sex God
We used to use the clubs a lot in our early days of swinging and have seen the discreet exchange of money to "working girls" at the door , even on one night the owners of the party even offered a female friend of ours $200 (she declined the offer)to work the rooms because thier girls hadnt shown up , was not to long after that we got out of the party scene as we didnt want to play with working girls and now only play in private
Melbcpl01
