singles on SH

12 Jul 2012

For any single people ( i dont discriminate between males or females) who are sick of the constant whinging and superior attitudes of the hordes of complaining (im not saying all are, only hordes of them wink

) couples on the site, lets just hold the moral high ground and not exclude anyone, but just ignore the whinging and smug attitude and enjoy ourselves!!!!

12 Jul 2012

brilliantly said..not sure how half of them would get on if they were ever to become single..but they would have to practise what they preach that is for sure..lol

12 Jul 2012

Quote by tim_tam
brilliantly said..not sure how half of them would get on if they were ever to become single..but they would have to practise what they preach that is for sure..lol

thanks!

13 Jul 2012

oh and another thing..believe it or not there are people on here who don't mind a bit of old fashion fun one on one (which includes single guys )..and there are quite a few gang bangs that specifically request the attendance of single guys..don't think too many of these would ever eventuate if single guys were excluded..couples who attend sex cinemas, nude beaches and go out dogging will often invite single guys to attend..so yes there is a place for single guys on this site and it would be great for those who spend half their time on here complaining about it on here to get over it..there is on the odd occasion that some single guys can cause problems but you don't have to look very far to see its not just single guys who behave inappropriately.

13 Jul 2012

Couples don't mind single guys. They just don't like being constantly hassled by them. Put together a good profile (I notice neither of you blokes have made much effort on that front) and couples will find you. Save your approach for when an approach is asked for, and all will be good with the world. smile

13 Jul 2012

Quote by TemptedTwo
Couples don't mind single guys. They just don't like being constantly hassled by them.
Put together a good profile (I notice neither of you blokes have made much effort on that front) and couples will find you.
Save your approach for when an approach is asked for, and all will be good with the world.

thanks for the unsolicited advice.............i do appreciate your concern but i will do things my way thanks all the same, I do well enough here meeting nice friendly people who take the time to talk and have a conversation about lots of subjects

13 Jul 2012

hi TemptedTwo i appreciate your thoughts however i for one am not on this site to meet couples..and im especially not into hassling them either..unless provoked..i am more than comfortable in trying my luck with the single ladies on here.

14 Jul 2012

pretty good comment tim tam but one would wonder then isnt a singles site a more likely place to meet your needs

14 Jul 2012

There are plenty of single females on this site..155 pages of them in fact..with 30 profiles per page..maybe not all are active members but personally i don't think i could handle 4650 women in any case..only in my dreams..haha

14 Jul 2012

Quote by cranky_1
For any single people ( i dont discriminate between males or females) who are sick of the constant whinging and superior attitudes of the hordes of complaining (im not saying all are, only hordes of them ) couples on the site, lets just hold the moral high ground and not exclude anyone, but just ignore the whinging and smug attitude and enjoy ourselves!!!!

as a member i held of answering this.. purely being im stuck in two places s a mod and as a member, and yes i am a member before i am a mod....
Answering this as a member... ppfftt folks will always whine... and it will always be about something, how u choose to answer and reply.... well.. will make u the different person.
Im purely over the whining, and yes i am doing it too... BUT its not about a group.. ie married ir singles and so on.. Im purely over the whining....
Most folks, who do whine, on here seem to be the ones who cant get, what they are looking for, in one form or another.. This is being said not as a mod, but as a member whos been here, way to long ..lol
Lets not do this single against married crap.. to be honest.. rather find an interesting topic... smile

This site is here, for those, that either have an interest, in one way or another, starting out, or at the end of it, BUT its still an interest..clubs.. what to do at parties what not to do..... Swinging as changed so much.... We all have good advice, ideas, clothes, or no clothes, DVDS, reading, research... The internet as opened up much, and some new folks, have no idea.. would just love to see, folks discussing.... The one thing that seems to end up lacking is adults.... sigh...
Oh i could go on...
Lets get back to the basics.... :)
would be nice....

14 Jul 2012

rose i had this big long response typed and then thought...................why bother, you cant defend yourself here or on the chatroom if somebody takes a swipe at you or your demographic without either being banned or kicked from the room or whatever, its a bit of a joke really the whole thing

14 Jul 2012

gggeeesss and thats a totally different subject ie bans and kicks ... and to your comment.... if somebody takes a swipe at you or your demographic without either being banned or kicked from the room or whatever, its a bit of a joke really the whole thing i would say that only happens, if you break the rules.... And i am replying as a moderator here and not a member, now...... There is a reason why.... because the mods take the abuse.. in what ever form.....as well as the heat....... so that members get ... a more enjoyable time in chat.... So lets not travel that path as it really doesnt cover your first post.

14 Jul 2012

14 Jul 2012

Quote by TemptedTwo
Put together a good profile (I notice neither of you blokes have made much effort on that front) and couples will find you.
Save your approach for when an approach is asked for, and all will be good with the world.

Yep, even just a few pics can make a world of difference!

14 Jul 2012

... Can anyone, especially a single, expect to gain interest particularly from the female half of a couple: *** without a detailed profile, *** without face pics and, *** without the time to read our profile? This is aswingers site, not a sex site. Singles need to get a life and bring something to the party not just a hard c**k for a quick f**k. Methinks some singles moan, groan and belly-ache way too much, we have met many from this site and have a lot of on-going fun with them. They have become genuine friends. Just our 10 cents worth, and worth just that.

14 Jul 2012

hey dont put all singles in the same boat... I may have balls.. but i am a SINGLE female.... and i treat all the same way be it solos or couples. and in reply.... not all the singles moan.. have heard more moaning from couples.... moaning about singles, then i have solos moaning about couples. And going from the ops first post..... he only brought it up after another post from another married couples profile... Lets not get to attacking.... so uumm swinging and sex arent the same??? smile

And lets not go on about folks needing a life :)

14 Jul 2012

We would be interested to know how many forum posts are started from single/solo males or single/solo females to the forums whinging about this site being a waste of time or does anyone actualy meet here We have seen many by single/solo males can never recall one started by a single/solo female in all the time we have been on here Happy to stand corrected though Melbcpl01

15 Jul 2012

It does not matter if you are single, male, female, transgender, or a couple......If you respect what people are looking for you will be fine. If a person is clear in their profile that what they are looking for is not what you are offering.....Move on. You are not likely to get very far pushing yourself onto people that are not looking for you. This applies regardless of if you are single, male, female, couple or transgender. From my experience single males are the worst for this, but very happy to say that this appears to have improved dramatically in recent times which is great to see lol

. It saves the Block button being used so often. It is a tough gig on here for single males, no doubting that. Some handle it much better than others which is a credit to them. Things are definitely improving. Happygirl

15 Jul 2012

I have to say I'm with Rosie here I'm just sick of the winging........ Couples winging about singles Singles winging about couples etc etc Oh bugga hang on I'm winging too.....well I'm sick of me winging too :haha:

20 Jul 2012

Quote by Happygirl75
It does not matter if you are single, male, female, transgender, or a couple......If you respect what people are looking for you will be fine.
If a person is clear in their profile that what they are looking for is not what you are offering.....Move on. You are not likely to get very far pushing yourself onto people that are not looking for you. This applies regardless of if you are single, male, female, couple or transgender.
From my experience single males are the worst for this, but very happy to say that this appears to have improved dramatically in recent times which is great to see . It saves the Block button being used so often.
It is a tough gig on here for single males, no doubting that. Some handle it much better than others which is a credit to them. Things are definitely improving.
Happygirl

happy girl
brilliant writting
i agree, read profiles first before you whisper.
mrs two doesnt mind chatting to anybody as long as they arnt rude or crude. but remember if you get on and a male is chatting on the couples profile dont just ignore them once you say hi, this gets people blocked very quickly
men get pissed off very quickly and i love using the block key, dont care if your married or single
mr two