Single male profiles on Swingers Heaven

hi there 

if you go to your profile privacy settings. there is an option to choose who you receive contact from... it wont stop single males viewing your profile, but it will stop any contact from single males  

hope that helps  

WOW is that their criminal offence that they look at your profile that has very little on offer....LOL
So what big deal you need to ask yourself why is this triggering and upsetting me for NO good reason????

I read a lot of profile and look at photo and there not a lot to get excited or HARD about, most guy's on here are chasing ghost that they'll never meet and fuck truth be told so I don't know why they're bothering wasting their own time.
Well, I do know the answer, it's all human psychology you know!

We have been members here for 10years. We have 8 profiles blocked not all single males, so all in all we find the majority of contacts very well behaved. Some members here do seem temperamental on issues that to us seem trivial. 

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We have spent so much time blocking single males from viewing our profile, I just spent over an hour going through who had viewed our profile and one by one I have blocked single males, there has to be an easier way?
Does anyone know a way of blocking all single male profiles?

At least it gives you something to do on boring nights LOL. but there are probably way more interesting things you could be doing. Just a thought, if it's your profile pics you don't want us single male profiles to view, you could put them in your private gallery, and only give access to those you want to view them.

Hope that helps.

I just had another thought. Some of us like to look through the gallery pages. If I click on a pic, it doesn't mean I am viewing your profile per se, it just means I saw a pic that interested me. I may even click the like button, it still doesn't mean I have viewed your profile, nor that I am interested in your profile.

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I just had another thought. Some of us like to look through the gallery pages. If I click on a pic, it doesn't mean I am viewing your profile per se, it just means I saw a pic that interested me. I may even click the like button, it still doesn't mean I have viewed your profile, nor that I am interested in your profile.

 So true

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I just had another thought. Some of us like to look through the gallery pages. If I click on a pic, it doesn't mean I am viewing your profile per se, it just means I saw a pic that interested me. I may even click the like button, it still doesn't mean I have viewed your profile, nor that I am interested in your profile.

 Yup, that’s just the way it goes , it’s just bad luck really. Just have to be really careful who you click on , why is it  even an issue?, if you do get blocked, it’s not going to change the outcome anyway, so what?

It’s going nowhere to begin with 🤪

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hi there 
if you go to your profile privacy settings. there is an option to choose who you receive contact from... it wont stop single males viewing your profile, but it will stop any contact from single males  
hope that helps  

 thanks Pixie_bell , we had that 👍😎✔️🍍🍍🍍🍍🍍

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I just had another thought. Some of us like to look through the gallery pages. If I click on a pic, it doesn't mean I am viewing your profile per se, it just means I saw a pic that interested me. I may even click the like button, it still doesn't mean I have viewed your profile, nor that I am interested in your profile.

 Yup, that’s just the way it goes , it’s just bad luck really. Just have to be really careful who you click on , why is it  even an issue?, if you do get blocked, it’s not going to change the outcome anyway, so what?

It’s going nowhere to begin with 🤪

 He block us for NO reason:grin::rotflmao::grin: (Your going in our block list as WELL) Because you've made it issue when there wasn't problem to being with!
I'm happy to do 3some with my Wife then looking for couple vs couple on HERE, There more rude and arrogant, disrespectful and time wasting couple like yourself then single guys by none!

I keep reading post like this 1 about all these bad single guy's on here but, when ask what they've done wrong to you #metoo I'm not a real victim. You can't get a straight answer of what abuse has taken place????

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Quote by Bob_Hunter
I just had another thought. Some of us like to look through the gallery pages. If I click on a pic, it doesn't mean I am viewing your profile per se, it just means I saw a pic that interested me. I may even click the like button, it still doesn't mean I have viewed your profile, nor that I am interested in your profile.

 Yup, that’s just the way it goes , it’s just bad luck really. Just have to be really careful who you click on , why is it  even an issue?, if you do get blocked, it’s not going to change the outcome anyway, so what?

It’s going nowhere to begin with 🤪

 It was going nowhere before they knew it was going nowhere LOL

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Quote by Bob_Hunter
I just had another thought. Some of us like to look through the gallery pages. If I click on a pic, it doesn't mean I am viewing your profile per se, it just means I saw a pic that interested me. I may even click the like button, it still doesn't mean I have viewed your profile, nor that I am interested in your profile.

 Yup, that’s just the way it goes , it’s just bad luck really. Just have to be really careful who you click on , why is it  even an issue?, if you do get blocked, it’s not going to change the outcome anyway, so what?

It’s going nowhere to begin with 🤪

 He block us for NO reason:grin::rotflmao::grin: (Your going in our block list as WELL) Because you've made it issue when there wasn't problem to being with!
I'm happy to do 3some with my Wife then looking for couple vs couple on HERE, There more rude and arrogant, disrespectful and time wasting couple like yourself then single guys by none!

I keep reading post like this 1 about all these bad single guy's on here but, when ask what they've done wrong to you #metoo I'm not a real victim. You can't get a straight answer of what abuse has taken place????


That response made no sense whatsoever. I have met Ken, from Ken and Barbie, and he is a great guy.

Oh mate, we have history, you can't want to block me surely???

Hey if you do, I don't take offence, I see the issue.

Ozcock

I have no intention of blocking good people that I have met, 

I have met ozcock at a meet n greet, he’s a genuine guy, ,everyone that was there on the night agreed what a really nice guy he was, I think this thing has been blown out of all proportion, 

I don’t want to argue about this issue,

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I have no intention of blocking good people that I have met, 
I have met ozcock at a meet n greet,

 Meet n greets are the best way to decipher some profiles. When I attended the last newy M&G there were a few surprised to see Lrig, I have always said i was married and she knows I'm bi, but until a few others actually spoke to her, they thought what most do. Here is another cheater. We both had a great night.

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Quote by KenandBarbie
I have no intention of blocking good people that I have met, 
I have met ozcock at a meet n greet,

 Meet n greets are the best way to decipher some profiles. When I attended the last newy M&G there were a few surprised to see Lrig, I have always said i was married and she knows I'm bi, but until a few others actually spoke to her, they thought what most do. Here is another cheater. We both had a great night.

That’s another issue, We can usually pick a fake couple, I don’t get what they think they are going to achieve, what happens when you meet, , bring along an blow up doll?

I think they just sit at home and play with their tiny little dicks and get off on the idea

Definitely not fair dinkum

Quote by KenandBarbie
That’s another issue, We can usually pick a fake couple, I don’t get what they think they are going to achieve, what happens when you meet, , bring along an blow up doll?
I think they just sit at home and play with their tiny little dicks and get off on the idea
Definitely not fair dinkum

 Completely correct there mate. But, us wise old heads can spot them. 
Happens to me too, usually a ‘couple’ wanting to chat, ask me about the scene, will post pics up when they ‘learn how to do it’ or they are just obvious net pics. Then progresses to wanting to see my pics, then telling them all what happened. It’s always just a guy, on his own, trying to build up wank material. I tend to have a bit of fun and gee them up for a while, passes the time 😂

Quote by KenandBarbie
I have no intention of blocking good people that I have met, 
I have met ozcock at a meet n greet, he’s a genuine guy, ,everyone that was there on the night agreed what a really nice guy he was, I think this thing has been blown out of all proportion, 
I don’t want to argue about this issue,

 Mate, that’s really kind of you to say that  about me. Thank you.

Hey KenandBarbie

With reference to your comment that “you have no intention of blocking good people” . That is not what you said previously you said as soon as single males click on your profile you block them so make up your mind.

I am one you have blocked and I have never spoken to you so how would you know what sort of person I am, you have classified me as bad straight up. Ps I don’t care either.

I always have the decency to read a profile and look at the likes etc and if I don’t meet the criteria I don’t message or annoy but that’s obviously not good enough for you.

In your statement that by definition swingers is for couples only you have successfully alienated over half the members.

Seems to me your trying to make up for the offence you inflicted on people. You are on the wrong site is my belief. Most have no time for narrow minded inconsiderate people that say things like you have  

Just my opinion as you say

Speak for yourself Ozcroc40, I don’t feel alienated. People have choices so you should respect that.

By the way, I think you’ll find that challenging people about why you are blocked is against site rules. You’ve been here 7 years now, you should know the rules.

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Speak for yourself Ozcroc40, I don’t feel alienated. People have choices so you should respect that.
By the way, I think you’ll find that challenging people about why you are blocked is against site rules. You’ve been here 7 years now, you should know the rules.

 I didn't read a challenge in Ozcroc40's reply but what you say is true and comes up when you view a profile that has blocked you. I don't give two tosses if I'm blocked. As they say. Plenty of fish...........

Yob 

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Quote by ozcock
Speak for yourself Ozcroc40, I don’t feel alienated. People have choices so you should respect that.
By the way, I think you’ll find that challenging people about why you are blocked is against site rules. You’ve been here 7 years now, you should know the rules.

 
 I didn't read a challenge in Ozcroc40's reply but what you say is true and comes up when you view a profile that has blocked you. I don't give two tosses if I'm blocked. As they say. Plenty of fish...........
Yob 

There was No challenge at all.
I'm pretty sure that you'll find that bashing and personal attack is against site rules also. You've been here long enough. You should know better

Given There are hundreds of great couples profiles on here, I am not sure why even bother entertaining dialogue with time wasters like KenandBarbie. Move on folks and find someone genuine.

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Given There are hundreds of great couples profiles on here, I am not sure why even bother entertaining dialogue with time wasters like KenandBarbie. Move on folks and find someone genuine.

 Hear hear we second that 

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Speak for yourself Ozcroc40, I don’t feel alienated. People have choices so you should respect that.
By the way, I think you’ll find that challenging people about why you are blocked is against site rules. You’ve been here 7 years now, you should know the rules.

 
 I didn't read a challenge in Ozcroc40's reply but what you say is true and comes up when you view a profile that has blocked you. I don't give two tosses if I'm blocked. As they say. Plenty of fish...........
Yob 

There was No challenge at all.
I'm pretty sure that you'll find that bashing and personal attack is against site rules also. You've been here long enough. You should know better

 I totally agree, I think if someone is conducting bashing and personal attacks you should report them to Admin, I do. 

But, if they are just replying to ridiculous, unintelligent, badly written and rambling rants by someone whose poorly constructed profile has no appeal to anybody, yet complains that their profile is not attracting the people they want, then I like to think its constructive criticism. Often it takes someone else to point out your flaws for you to see them yourself. I have loads, but I like to think that my biggest strength is my good looks and intelligence whereas my biggest flaw is my humility.

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Quote by ozcock
Speak for yourself Ozcroc40, I don’t feel alienated. People have choices so you should respect that.
By the way, I think you’ll find that challenging people about why you are blocked is against site rules. You’ve been here 7 years now, you should know the rules.

 
 I didn't read a challenge in Ozcroc40's reply but what you say is true and comes up when you view a profile that has blocked you. I don't give two tosses if I'm blocked. As they say. Plenty of fish...........
Yob 

There was No challenge at all.
I'm pretty sure that you'll find that bashing and personal attack is against site rules also. You've been here long enough. You should know better

 I totally agree, I think if someone is conducting bashing and personal attacks you should report them to Admin, I do. 
But, if they are just replying to ridiculous, unintelligent, badly written and rambling rants by someone whose poorly constructed profile has no appeal to anybody, yet complains that their profile is not attracting the people they want, then I like to think its constructive criticism. Often it takes someone else to point out your flaws for you to see them yourself. I have loads, but I like to think that my biggest strength is my good looks and intelligence whereas my biggest flaw is my humility.

I know I am not perfect and I've yet to meet anyone who is!
PM:  I don't have a problem attracting people and receiving private message at all by the way. I am just sick and tired of all the time waster and photo hunter and people who send private album who're just fishing for likes and compliment. If they didn't like the profile at all, why bother PM in the first place and it's because they enjoy and getting off on the fact that people are making compliments and wanting to meet these people and these people have NO intention on meeting up and wanting sex.

The last 2 months I've been on the phone to this couple for like 2 hours, we've thing in common and I tick all the boxes and I've sent the face photo as ask but, when it comes time to send their face photo they can't do it. I've ask a few times now and nothing!

Are you sure you don't have NPD, do you want me to spell that out for you as well. You think you're all that and a bag of chips and let me tell you something you ain't buddy!, For someone who put down other people and make fun of their disability in order to make themselves look bigger then everyone else, It just goes to show what type of person you really are.
Let's not discuss your flaws and witnesses now NPD, What is it like to continuously manipulate and triangulate other people in order for them to like your false self?? For someone who is 50 and doesn't have a wife, don't you know how to keep a women happy...LOL What is it like to feeling dead and empty inside, behind a mere appearance of being real???
Nobody is interested in what you've got to say NPD, Nobody, so be quiet and listen!

everyone just chill and move on please... people have a right to put what ever they want into there profiles without others judging...the same as they have a right to block people without giving reason... not everyone is great with grammar or punctuation ect... we are on a swingers site not handing in essays for grading... if this tit for tat continues i will delete these posts and take further action against those who continue with the pettiness 

kind regards 

pixie_bell 

Bloody Hell, what is going on here, lets all take a deep breath, it's not the end of the world.

kinda was a "got up outside of the wrong side of the bed" moment me thinks. Kenandbarbie have taken a line and that's their right. If you have a close look you will see that there is a caveat to there stance. They have a group that parties and pushes nbo. The problem with that though is that in the current environment with covid things have stopped. I'm sure a few of the single guys that were keen and blocked still may have a chance at said party when they start back up and get back into the full swing of things