im chunky, but get off from clit stimulation. i have a tight fanny, so any guy who has a decent sized cock will appreciate me and my attributes. i dont cum through sex, but i dont get bent out of shape over it either. i dont have issues in most positions, unless its me on top for a while then its painful for my ankle (metal in the leg), or squatting positions, for the same reasons. i am self conscious of my belly though and wish it would disappear, but until i win tatts, im stuck with it, and try to do the best i can. i go through periods of well toned muscles and that always pays off in the bedroom too lol
in short, if a man respects me and treats me well, he shouldnt have issues with me and my body, and if he did, he wouldnt be with me in the first place, which would be made clear on the first coffee meeting anyway