Having discussed swinging with my wife many times in the past, she is still will not ready
to give it a go.
While on holidays last year she did consider having sex with a guy we met on our travels,
so shes not dead set against the idea.
I have considered introducing someone from the net to "accidentally" meet up with her
and try to seduce her.
Has anyone had any success with this course of action.
Have never tried this but maybe you could talk it over with her if its something she maybe interested in , also does she know about your profile and its details ? with whats posted in your comments "Can't convince wife so whatever comes along" one woukl say not .
Seen as this is the case you would not want someone to say anything about the site that you may arange to meet , may just turn her further against anything if she has no clue about the site and what position you are putting her in
Just need to remember playing this game is a 2 way street , both parties must be 100% willing to do it
Melbcpl01
My wife and I have talked about getting a girl to come over one night while she a sleep. I would let the girl in show her to our bed room, where the girl would slide into our bed next to my sleeping wife. The girl would then start to feel my wife up.
I have been trying to find a lady to help fulfil this, But had no luck.
You said
"I have considered introducing someone from the net to "accidentally" meet up with her
and try to seduce her."
I find this to be really disrespectful to you wife and almost like a setup for her to fail if she does fall for your underhanded tactic! If she does not know what you are doing by setting her up for this and she falls for it, she then has to live with the guilt that she was unfaithful in her marriage regardless of your selfish intentions.
Bottom line is, if she is not interested and you really do love and respect your wife you would not even be thinking of such stupid ideas!... Try thinking with her heart and head rather than your dick!...
We do everything together and swinging works fine in fact it added to our relationship , you need to find common ground watch some porn participate in an adult site and chat then see how each other feels We couldnt think of a more genuine and honest way to test the waters
This lifestyle only works if BOTH parties are open and willing participants, Going behind one
part of the couples back only leads to confrontation, grief and builds resentment !
This sort of thing is what splits couples up, be very careful what you wish for!
as lumix said ,,,,or go on another holiday ,,,,but no "accidently" anything