Secret Bars in Melbourne CBD to meet couples

Hello all

Is there any bars in Melbourne CBD that we can go to to meet like minded couples with bi-curious/ bi -sexual female wanting to play

Will be going on the weekend of 21st February 

Interested to see just how many places that look like normal bars from the outside with curious people living out a fantasy hoping to find and looking for the same thing and just happen to strike up a conversation leading to some exciting sexual fun 🤔

How would you approach and make talk without embarrassment 

It would be great to find a place like this knowing only some people had the same desire

we'll be following this post with much interest, a great question and hope you get some responses from those in the know......

Bump , hoping to get some feedback

Hey _sinners, so this is a place? ......Bump

lol no, bump is a way of bringing your post back to the top of the page, we're just as curious as you guys to know if any such bars exist in the CBD or surrounding suburbs

🤣 thought it might have been a abbreviation for a club name.......oooppps

would be good to know what bars are good

hello _sinners hope your well  

Was in the Crown Casino Melbourne passing through after being at a function near by over the weekend 

This was just by chance

We went to a bar on the first level looking for toilets if you entered from the Clarendon St entrance opposite the Exhibition centre

You go up the escalators and your straight into the bar area

After using the toilets we decided to have one drink

At the bar area for 5 mins and instantly noticed a more mature crowd dressed really neatly more like cocktail attire and we being dressed the same we fitted in really well

So long story short we realised we were at a bar with couples and people wanting what this topic I raised is about

Managed to talk to a few people  and got the courage to ask and sure enough it was confirmed also finding out are bar on the ground level opposite the food court known as the sports bar is a known hangout in the swingers world and has been for many years

This bar is more a Wednesday night thing

So our passing through toilet stop and drink turned into finding a spot we knew nothing about

Interesting thing was, Mrs2 was spoken to more by women than men even though we stood together

The women really being flirty aged in there late 30s-40s 

So interesting find, and may find ourselves having a look this weekend since we will have the time

that is so helpful guys, we'll be there on a regular basis from this day forward lol.......cheers

what a great topic. We are always trying to find similar. Will remember this when in the cbd next time. Thanks for the insight 

2ofus_12 you might have just happened to fluke upon one of the RHP or Commercial Meet and Greets, as they take place at Crown quite regularly. So no different to how we do our own Meet & Greets, there's heaps of other groups that do them as well and I know that same venue a few groups use as well, as lots of people like Crown as a central venue and the obviously combo of drinks and hotel rooms in the same venue ;) 

Crown has about 15 bars. Anyone have any idea which one this might be?

between friends wine bar in the city seems like the sort of thing your after?

Hey all, We are in Melbourne for the weekend and are after that elusive bar again or venue where we are here for the same thing. Couples to meet couples or singles to meet a couple for some naughty play time together without knowing we are here for the same but to scared to ask or approach incase of rejection or embarrassment. Just need to spark a conversation and see we it goes. So question is A: how do we get onto the subject without stating the obvious. B: Do we let the ladies chat away and while in conversation maybe one say “listen I’m off to the ladies do you want to come” striking up the topic somehow. C: having a dance and the ladies break away dance together and raise the subject all the while the boys are doing the same. Just have to see how thing turn out. Fingers crossed

hi all are there any bars in Perth to checkout

Great topic. Now I'm wondering about Sydney

I wouldn’t really consider it a bar purely to meet couples or other swingers but I’m fond of the Berlin bar for pre meet up drinks, its a Cold War theme bar so you can choose between west and east Berlin, each having different motifs, west is more like a up-class speakeasy with booths and suede chairs and east is more dingy but in a good way with beds and park benches, the great thing is the lighting in the east side is dimmer for the projector to work so, some good hand play can set the mood.

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Crown has about 15 bars. Anyone have any idea which one this might be?

They pretty much gave you exact location in their post.

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Hey all, We are in Melbourne for the weekend and are after that elusive bar again or venue where we are here for the same thing. Couples to meet couples or singles to meet a couple for some naughty play time together without knowing we are here for the same but to scared to ask or approach incase of rejection or embarrassment. Just need to spark a conversation and see we it goes. So question is A: how do we get onto the subject without stating the obvious. B: Do we let the ladies chat away and while in conversation maybe one say “listen I’m off to the ladies do you want to come” striking up the topic somehow. C: having a dance and the ladies break away dance together and raise the subject all the while the boys are doing the same. Just have to see how thing turn out. Fingers crossed

Are you not going to those bars you chanced upon the last time? Regarding striking up the conversation, I would look at the other couples, you will spot the knowing smiles at each other, how they are looking at other couples/ladies/men and how they discuss them. I would say you could pretty much suss out who is who in the room within 15-30 minutes. When you see others who attract you just make sure they see you looking at THEM, catch their eye, smile, flirt. It's the same with couples as it is with singles, you will soon get the hang of it.

Following with interest, we go to Crown some Saturdays.

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hello _sinners hope your well  

Was in the Crown Casino Melbourne passing through after being at a function near by over the weekend 

This was just by chance

We went to a bar on the first level looking for toilets if you entered from the Clarendon St entrance opposite the Exhibition centre

You go up the escalators and your straight into the bar area

After using the toilets we decided to have one drink

At the bar area for 5 mins and instantly noticed a more mature crowd dressed really neatly more like cocktail attire and we being dressed the same we fitted in really well

So long story short we realised we were at a bar with couples and people wanting what this topic I raised is about

Managed to talk to a few people  and got the courage to ask and sure enough it was confirmed also finding out are bar on the ground level opposite the food court known as the sports bar is a known hangout in the swingers world and has been for many years

This bar is more a Wednesday night thing

So our passing through toilet stop and drink turned into finding a spot we knew nothing about

Interesting thing was, Mrs2 was spoken to more by women than men even though we stood together

The women really being flirty aged in there late 30s-40s 

So interesting find, and may find ourselves having a look this weekend since we will have the time

I believe the bar you’re talking about is Echostate we go and watch bands sometimes, wife has had a few looks from women before. We play the pokies just outside of the bar.