are people so far up them selves , they post there message, or advertise them self, they recieve a response,
and cant even be bothered to reply , just a no thanks is all its takes, DAMM RUDE
Keep in mind some people may not be on the site all that often. Also, some receive A LOT of messages - especially from guys - and simply don't have time to respond to everything they receive.
you can check your sent items to see if they have read your message or not - so if they arent on site very foten u can see if theyve had a chance to read the message before assuming they dont give a shit
Check, Did the message you sent comply with what the others were looking for?
If you dont match what people are looking for, Why should they answer if you didnt read their profile.
But we do agree, we have sent 20 -30 messages with no reply, which makes it very easy to not even try now.
I wonder, if this site took a proactice approach and if they recieved complaints of unanswered mail when the profiles matched and the mail has been opened...three strikes and your out....Have a option ....no mail just looking , so we know not to send mail there.
we don't reply to single guys messaging us as this is not what we are after. clearly states this in our profile and advert as well yet they still send messages to us. One day we may change this but just now we are after something different.