I was wondering y single guys got such a bad rap and like all things it's the 5% of rotten eggs that spoil it for everyone.
Prime example most single guys are more then happy when u MSG them and are keen to talk but then u get that rotten egg that hardly talks so the spark aint there and u say good bye. Thats when u realise y single guys have a bad rap. They start to abuse you. I'm not sure what he thinks this site is but no matter what in life you can not just abuse ppl bcoz they don't wanna involve u in their fun.
And another thing. Just bcoz I want to watch my mrs play with another guy DOES NOT mean that I can not please her or my cock is to small.
So single guys if u wanna get a better name for urselfs shape up abit and learn respect.
We have only been on for a short time and we try to be polite to single males that whisper us in the chat room
However when we are busy or chatting to other and delay our response to them a few have been quite rude.
Solution ?
Block
lol as new guys come and go its takes a while to whip em into shape , unfortunately many think swingers are couples who dont satisfy each other the real truth is most swinging couples are in the very top end of sexual occurrence and quality so much so that they can enjoy the sex and look to expand the event.
Its the guys who arent getting sex who dare to be critical of those who are, in the end all you can do is enjoy each other every time you want to while these guys toss off and say your a lucky man lol
Very well put OK&Q i couldnt have said it any nicer mate lol
If you can get into the chat rooms, 125 slots. 4couples. 1 girl, 120 single guys.. enough said....
I don't know... I was in one of the chatrooms the other day and it was about 60 people, 80% couples, 15% single males, 5% single females. Admittedly that was the exception rather than the rule, but most of the single males are silent lurkers anyway, just looking to whisper and watch cams.
As for the single guys, our biggest issue is that 90% of them don't get past the photos when looking at a profile (if they look at the profile at all). Or for some weird reason they do read our profile but think our rules re single guys somehow don't apply to them. That's not just one or two giving the rest a bad rap - it's 90% of them! (Or at least 90% of the ones that message us - perhaps there are many more who do read our profile but respectfully don't message us because they know they don't meet our criteria)
100% with you tempted, it may not be all of them but it is all of those who list crawl and profile crawl then make approaches
with total disregard for you personal preferences, since thats how this particular type of charater contacts, he is usually the type having displayed a total lack of respect in the first place, has no issue with cracking the abusive shits and then jump on forums justifying how all guys are not the same and he is the exception.
If you are that type and you are reading this simple contact those who want to facilitate an extra player and respect the personal choices of those who dont.
The single guys we speak too are social chats we will not tolerate being groomed or separated or involved in anything we have specifically said in our preferences no too.
The guys who are clever, funny and social in chat are welcome to say hi in main chat , as long as they understand we didnt fill in the profile for a joke , its to assist assessment of viable and compatible friends.
99% of couples profiles say " no single guys ",
100% of those who feel free to contact others, obviously think this doesn't apply to them.
What they dont realise is this "hobby" is for our enjoyment and while it is a very enjoyable hobby for most its for who we choose to share our selves with not those who want the mrs under the disguise of swinging and they bring nothing to the party so to speak.