Nude Beach Etiquette

29 Nov 2015

What does everyone class as Beach Etiquette at Grays Lane. We are not time wasters, we arrive the night before, go away to camp and then are back at the crack of dawn, usually leaving by lunchtime as we have a limited time away from our family. We are polite to everyone, but not everyone gets invited to play and we don't play in a group thing just one or maybe two guys. So my question when is it okay to be rude to someone. Example. We set up our tent in the usual spot last weekend on the edge of the dunes in a shaded area. A male came and set up on the edge of the dune about 5 metres from our shade tent. He stood on the edge of the dune watching over the beach and anyone who looked at us, he kind of spocked out. So we went for a walk. Then I went for a walk to collect shells as usual. He approached Mr and asked do we play, and if so were we playing this weekend. Mr's usual answer is it's up to me. He hung. I came back and He hung. I went for a swim he hung at our tent. We went for another walk he followed. I went for another swim he hung and then went back to his towel, once again watching the beach .... He came back to our tent and to get rid of him without being rude I went for another swim, I then started to play with Mr and he zoomed in. I stopped and then suggest that Mr and I go back to the car park for some lunch. He said I'm going for lunch too and took all his stuff. When we left the car park to come back he followed us and set up in the same spot. We met someone we had prearranged to meet and he tried to zoom in on it. Mr asked him to stand back as he would put the situation off and spoil it for me but he still made the situation so uncomfortable the guy we'd came to meet couldn't even get it up. So my question is how rude do you have to be, because I'm not a rude person but I don't do sympathy stud just because you won't leave us alone. Any thought on how I can politely handle these situations because our once or twice a month at the beach is our only time away from family duties.

2 Dec 2015

Hi MrsPJ. Maybe you should consider heading inland & west. The company is much easier going out there. Cheers MrZ.

2 Dec 2015

Mrs PJ, Unfortunately it sounds like there would have been no other option apart from being rude it seems. If the individual could not respect what you were saying when being polite they would deserve you being rude, but I guess even being rude would not have made a difference to that person. Agree with Mr Z, head west some nice rivers and lakes as well as people smile

3 Dec 2015

G'day Mrs PJ Everything we do in this little world of pleasure as individuals or couples has to involve 'choice' and 'permission' You are perfectly okay in choosing to go to a location of your choice [no pun intended] You are perfectly okay in choosing who to play with You are also very correct in asking someone who does not have 'permission' to leave you in peace It is not being rude by you to ask someone to leave you alone, or to leave you to play with someone else to whom you have given 'permission' May I suggest that before it happens again, you and your lover practice some "no" calls so that when it happens for-real, you are used to the firmness in your voice "Thank you for thinking I would be good to play with, but NO - not at the moment" ... sort of thing "Thank you for asking, but NO, I am not in the space for playing just now" and if the other person needs a bit more of a verbal shove "I have not given you permission to touch my body, so please move away and give me space" and the good old favourite from elsewhere "what part of NO do you not understand" As suggested above, do a few goes with your lover so that you get used to the words, and the sounds of your voice being firm and forceful Phil

25 Dec 2015

we have been to clubs many times we are so over freeloaders single guys anything polite translates via there cock to in a few minutes nothing short of aquick sharp fuck off has any effect on them . its your fun your body and play you need to ensure its safe and suits you , a few dozen of these experiences youll either have the sharpest fuck off or stop going , we will not go to mixed swingers clubs cpls only so this situation never arises.