Warming the Bed
I can't help but notice so many profiles that say No Single Males. It appears they are not very popular ?
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No Single Males
Unfortunately you're correct.
There are an overwhelming number of single guys, and a good number of them just don't read or understand what women/couples want. Many women/couples get fed up with those single guys and put up that sometimes blatant and sometimes rude "No single guys" text. Single guys get fed up with all the rejections and not being able to find a horde of nymphomaniac sluts desperate for the hard cock that their husband obviously isn't giving them. In the end people from the two groups can get rather frustrated and cranky towards each other.
Sex God
It maybe also the case that a couple has No single males on thier profile to try and stop the flood of desperate guys messaging them for want it now sex just like the meat head that contactd us today from another suite wanting sex NOW
Couple maybe still looking for a single guy and have that no single guys on prifile so they can try and control the hoards and pic out the guys they want
We have done that in the past and when we havecontacted a single male they say but you have no single guys on profile and when tell them why most do understand
I have in the past been contacted by couples who say no single males. Often if I see a couple I like the look of I will just send a message saying nice pics but I won't push things.
What seems to be the biggest problem is people making appointments to meet up and then they fail to follow through on the day.
I get a fair share of people/couples contact me (and vice versa) and want to meet up. Exchange numbers etc and then the day comes and they dive for cover never to be heard from again. Still trying to figure this one out.
Most hook-ups I have had and it seems to work the best are spur of the moment things and are not over planned or analysed. In other words I am talking to them online are they ask "what are you doing tonight"? and away we go. This stuff about lets hook up in a weeks time doesn't work much.
Quote by UltraAngel" date="19/04/2015 12:40:12 pm
I see a lot for profile of couple and single guys say I'm straight but, are looking for bi, what's the deal here???
Why don't people understand that bi means willing to play with either gender, not must play with both? Why are they so afraid that a bi guy is going to touch up the Mr even if Mr says he doesn't want that?
A bi guy can happily behave just like another straight guy you know. And they won't freak out when there's some accidental male-male contact.
I (Mr TT) am straight, but when we look for a single male what we don't want is some homophobic straight guy who thinks a threesome means banging my Mrs while I sit across the other side of the room out of fear that I might accidentally touch his hand when we both reach for her clit at the same time.
Quote by UltraAngel" date="19/04/2015 5:52:53 pm
When I read a profile like that, to me I beleive they're not being honest.
Our profile lists me as straight but we include bi guys (and straight guys) in our "Looking for" section.
So what do you think that says about us?
We try not to give two hoots about what people list as their sexuality, and instead just talk to them and share what we're each up for (and not up for). Even if I was interested in bi play, he might not find me attractive and only want to play with Mrs TT anyway.
Warming the Bed
Very good points TT, a very good reasonable explanation.
Maybe needs to have a category "same sex contact comfortable" for those of use who are not homophobic.
There is a thin divide between genius and insanity, the question is which side of the line
I don't think that single guys should get frustrated at this, listen to the message. It is a matter of getting together and doing some things like circle jerks and porno video sessions and the like. Be inventive, maybe a Men's Shed variation with extras etc. It can be very depressing when you realise that you are not wanted. So single males unite and maybe you will enjoy yourself and then put on your profile -> No single females!
