Just curious...
Wondering if happy couples who swing still consider themselves monogamous? In the sense that they aren't interested in "relationships" with other people, just sex? And if a couple both swing, what constitutes cheating? It seems to me as soon as you involve any third party the lines all of a sudden get very blurry, and all of the black-and-white rules you've lived by up to that point suddenly turn to endless shades of grey.
Obviously everyone's going to have different views on these things (and I don't want this to just be another "what's cheating?" thread) but I'm curious to hear some thoughts on this.
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Monogamy v Swinging v Open Relationship... etc.
Hi there:
Our attitude is that sex is or can be fun and we do enjoy sharing it with others. We differentiate between having sex and making love. K prefers not to kiss when she plays - She also prefers me not to kiss others when playing. Having said that there is a couple and one single out there that we play with and have become close to. (You know who you are! Ha!)
Cheating to us would be going behind the other's back and hiding it.
Just our 10 Cents worth - And worth just that!
Sexlightened
We have a very simple arrangement and that is we play together. We have done some separate room stuff, but we both prefer to stay together. After all part of the fun is watching your partner being pleasured.
Fires
You dont have to be too clever to see as there's three different titles there's obviously three different activities.
Whilst this site trys to redefine common meanings and assign its own definitions, life is simple if we stick to the normal meanings of words so everyone knows what they mean.
