MANOPAUSE (MENOPAUSE)

My Wife was a high powered sex lover until approximately three years ago and menopause started, then everything stopped. She no longer has any desire and complains of soreness in her fanny when stimulated. We were about to start swinging when all this started. Any ideas please??

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Does she still flash ?

my wife has been like that for 8 years now so i get it behind her back when i can

I feel your pain mate, I dont even try any more i just go to the rub and tug shops, its expensive but i am guaranteed to loos a load and have some fun.

I’m hearing you, mine was always up for a fuck day or night with me or another bloke and then menopause got her about two years ago and she just lost interest. We’ve spoken about it and she said that she has no desire for cock and can’t explain why. She does still fuck me now and then but it’s not as good as a pull as she’s just letting me use her pussy and I know she’s not enjoying it. Myself and a couple of mates are wanking more than ever.

To start swinging would be a good option because it would help re-activate her libido, arousal and interest in sex.

I am told by a lady in menopause that in her case, it does not mean an end of sexual desirability or activity.

my wife is like that as well 12 years thats why im on here behind her back

Same situation. Love my wife but 3 times in 5 years just isn’t enough

My missus is the same. Can’t do HRT, lost all interest in sex. Has been like this for 5 plus years.

Do they ever grow out of it and get their libido back ?

I lived in a sexless marriage for many many years until last year so I understand how it Is difficult to go from a marriage/relationship where sex was a priority and important to nothing . But all I have read here is a bunch of men who sound extremely selfish . Don’t you think menopause is difficult for the female as well ? Our bodies change and our feelings and emotions etc are all over the place . Maybe instead of having a sook about it you could try and be just a little understanding, I know from my side it’s no fun for us either

To all guys with partners in menopause be patient with your lady see the GP or experiment with your lady grinding her clitoris over your cock with plenty of lube there is a lot more to sex than intercourse

Our sex life has been pretty ordinary. Confessed to wife I'd been watching Bi and Trans porn. It must have pressed the right button. She jumped me telling me to "suck my cock". I've still got a smile on my face. I'm hoping this is a turning point for us. Talk, experiment and play

my friend is dry.

she uses a cream and helps a lot inside

and lots of foreplay

Hey this is a hard subject for both sex's - sex stops for both and you drift apart - that's sad - talking understanding the issues of menopause for both parties is something those that are going through it should endeavour to undertake whilst still respecting one another - there is no easy solution to this subject. My partner has been that way for the last seven years and out and out says no to any advances for sex. This leaves one rather frustrated and needing to relieve by masturbation. I'd rather hot wet sex with my lady that releases the body sexually rather than masturbating. I've forgotten the feeling of a complete sexual release but still think about it.

HRT from a holistic FEMALE DOC. Following that throw your self agrandising hopes of anything other than loving her like never before. Her fucking body has just gone FU to her. And like you say she enjoyed it before she probably misses it and feels broken old helpless and frustrated. Imagine if you woke up one day and had dick dismorfia. You can see it but it has no intention of talking to you or standing up its just said I am done mate. Hard Johnson has left the building. So with that in mind treat her as you would like to be treated if you suddenly woke up with out a cock. She feel like that and she felt like she is failing you. No after 12 months HRT and if you get a female doc she will ensure it includes testosterone. And you will understand why I enforced in you the be a loving hubby. Because you will want her to remember that as the testosterone courses through her along with a health desire for a lot more testosterone in her on her around her. I am speaking from experience and I am glad for the post menopause pre HRT Year off. So what swinging did you have in mind hopefully your of with mmmmmf long weekends