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Is the site becaming boreing
i would have to, sadly, say it is. There are less attractive women on cam in my eyes. Used to get some real stunners late on weekend nights but its pretty dead now just the same old same old. There are less advertised outdoor sex shows, cinema fucks for audiences etc down here in Melbourne, very rare now if any at all. And in the chatroom just the same people talking about their work, kids etc not as much talk of kinky stuff etc. Still has potential and it may be going through a dry phase so hears hoping it returns to the glory days
Over and out
Sex God
Your sure its not your selfs, and not really the site. That are getting bored?
Umm just because its an Adult site, doesnt mean sex as to spoken about all the time. The site as always been great in the range of subjects, specially in chat.
Oh And all us, non stunners... Would like to thank you.
Oh and its not the sites fault, about the out door shows??
Thats up to members. 
Thank heavens... out of all of that.
Makes you a winner in my book, can u guess what book? :P
:)
Thank heavens... out of all of that.
Makes you a winner in my book, can u guess what book? :P
:) 
Orgasminator
Yep, sadly lacking in quality but I think that's due to overexposure.
Quantity does not win over quality. And a dictionary would be of more use than a porn magazine for some.
If the site is seen as an end in itself, perhaps it will be boring. I always check what is going on in the forums, pop into chat most days, as well as keeping an eye on our page. These things, in and of themselves would probably not keep me interested in here. What does keep me coming back again and again is the interactions we have with others on this site. We use the site as an opportunity to connect with other, like-minded people. We have been really fortunate to meet some fantastic people here and to have initiated lots of fun through the website. From our perspective, the website is the vehicle which leads to the fun and relationships that we are after. It is not an end in itself. There are plenty of other websites which are ends in themselves, if that is what people are after.
From our experience, I think that there are many people who think that SH will, somehow, be the 'magic solution' to all their needs. We have had to work at building relationships here and to take time to sort through all the approaches we get(I don't say that in a big-headed way, it simply is our reality). Sadly, many guys(and it's always guys) think that a message saying something like, 'I want to tap your slut's ass'(and that's an actual message we got this week), will somehow impress us with it's masterful use of the English language to actually want to drop everything there and then to take up the offer! Perhaps guys think their lack of positive responses to such requests makes the site boring, but I would disagree with that idea.
Friend requests from people we have had no interaction with, who live in another state, with barely completed profiles and no pics, surprise us with their boldness in thinking that we will say 'yes' to the request. A lack of response to these requests might lead some to think the site is boring for them, but it's not the site which is at fault.
Like anything in life, it's what you put in and contribute which helps to bring about rewards. If this site is boring - and I would disagree with that from our experiences here - then it is up to all of us to put in and give it the life it needs.
Quote by HardFella
i would have to, sadly, say it is. There are less attractive women on cam in my eyes. Used to get some real stunners late on weekend nights but its pretty dead now just the same old same old. There are less advertised outdoor sex shows, cinema fucks for audiences etc down here in Melbourne, very rare now if any at all. And in the chatroom just the same people talking about their work, kids etc not as much talk of kinky stuff etc. Still has potential and it may be going through a dry phase so hears hoping it returns to the glory days
Over and out
You mention the "glory days" yet you've only been a member here since August? :confused2:
Also constant posting and reporting on dogging sites (mostly by single guys) has killed a number of sites off.
Forum Virgin
Boring , no ... If people are bored, then perhaps you should go out and do some-thing. Take a break then come back and chat... lLife is for living .. Happy swinging all xxx
Sex God
Quote by HardFella
i would have to, sadly, say it is. There are less attractive women on cam in my eyes. Used to get some real stunners late on weekend nights but its pretty dead now just the same old same old. There are less advertised outdoor sex shows, cinema fucks for audiences etc down here in Melbourne, very rare now if any at all. And in the chatroom just the same people talking about their work, kids etc not as much talk of kinky stuff etc. Still has potential and it may be going through a dry phase so hears hoping it returns to the glory days
Over and out
Boring after being here since August you must get bored very quickly then , have seen plenty of good looking gals on cam of all shapes and sizes , maybe a barbie doll placed in front of a cam would suit you better , as for the outdoor shows cinemas etc they still happen you just need to know where to look as they are not as often posted in public forums due the over exposure and the mentality of most single guys ruining it for the ladies / couples that go out to enjoy themselves
Personally we enjoy the site. We use this site to stay in touch with Meet and Greets, playtime or social gatherings, make contact with new people and stay in contact with our current pool of friends.
Using the site as the only source of entertainment i.e. cam is rather silly. For those that are bored, feel free to organise a Meet and Greet, a day at the beach, a party, so many opportunities to use this site as a hub for those who join this site to meet people. Compared to many other adult sites, bang for buck this site rocks.
As for comment about 'less attractive women on cam', the only thing I can say to that, is ....WTF! So has it all come down to not enough attractive women on cam now? Be grateful that people have the confidence to get on cam in the first place. Perhaps the ladies on this site should comment about the lack of buffed, tall guys, supporting 10inch cocks on cam as well! Maybe the fellas need to be an Adonis to be on cam? Just putting it out there 
Warming the Bed
The site is what it is. It's not changed. We have meet some great people on here.
I like the forum especially threads like this.
You guys rock ,love you all
We agree it has dropped off, less fun cams and more ppl just sitting chatting. We come here for the perve. noticed this since the change in membership costs and benefits. And before you all jump on us we were here before that but have started a new profile which maybe is what the other fella did too.
the site has its ups and down, quiet night versus busy nights but not one night is the same.
Being adults we come on site to meet like minded people and it is also refreshing to be able to have general chat with ADULTS. What is annoying is the keyboard warriors, the petty jealousies, the abuse and derogatory comments when being on cam or towards others on cam.
People have different tastes, so whether you are fat, skinny, large medium, pretty or ugly, they are someones TASTE, and how dare anyone comment otherwise. Hence the reduction in people more specifically women camming. If i cam i have mature older woman rolling their eyes if i get complimented or making petty bitchy remarks, why? Because i am skinny and what some might call pretty/attractive and yet the bigger ladies get it too there is no winning on this site and quite frankly no one is on here to please others, they are on here for themselves
People lurk on the side and want to have a opinion that the room is boring so why not jump in and make conversation, but again we are adults and the range of conversation should be about whatever people are happy to talk about, if you want dirty kinky fuck talk make a room and have it. SIMPLE or jump in change the topic and you will have everyone join in.
At the end of the day you make this site work for you, you take what you want from it, and you make it worth your time
Sexlightened
When my children complained of being bored (in spite of having horses, motorbikes etc) I always used to say "Only boring people get bored"
